Simon Sinek

None. They should be banned. It's parents who are the big offenders. It's crazy. You know, I need to get ahold of my kid in case there's an emergency. How many emergencies you having per week? No, none. One a year? Maybe. If you're lucky or unlucky?

None. They should be banned. It's parents who are the big offenders. It's crazy. You know, I need to get ahold of my kid in case there's an emergency. How many emergencies you having per week? No, none. One a year? Maybe. If you're lucky or unlucky?

It's close to zero.

It's close to zero.

Yeah, the number of times I was called out of my classroom and in all of my junior high school and high school life was maybe twice.

Yeah, the number of times I was called out of my classroom and in all of my junior high school and high school life was maybe twice.

Maybe twice.

Maybe twice.

If you're insecure about something, you will find yourself feeling competitive with your friends. And I think that that is more a sign of something you're going through. We've all been there. I've definitely been competitive with friends. Really? Sure, of course. It's because I'm not in a good space. And their success is reminding me of the thing that I'm struggling with.

If you're insecure about something, you will find yourself feeling competitive with your friends. And I think that that is more a sign of something you're going through. We've all been there. I've definitely been competitive with friends. Really? Sure, of course. It's because I'm not in a good space. And their success is reminding me of the thing that I'm struggling with.

So are you a good friend if you're competing with your friend? I think you're a good friend if you're open with your friend what you're going through. Hey, can I talk to you for a minute? I'm going through some stuff and I'm having feelings that are making me real uncomfortable. Like I'm getting jealous of your success and that's screwed up because I'm so proud of you and so happy for you.

So are you a good friend if you're competing with your friend? I think you're a good friend if you're open with your friend what you're going through. Hey, can I talk to you for a minute? I'm going through some stuff and I'm having feelings that are making me real uncomfortable. Like I'm getting jealous of your success and that's screwed up because I'm so proud of you and so happy for you.

Can I just talk to you about what I'm going through in my life? Because I don't think I'm in a good place if I'm having that feeling. You know, jealousy is a feeling like happy, sad, angry. And, you know, it's the same thing in relationships. Usually when we feel jealous, what we do is we demand that our partner change their behavior so we don't have to do insecurities. Right? Like, how dare you?

Can I just talk to you about what I'm going through in my life? Because I don't think I'm in a good place if I'm having that feeling. You know, jealousy is a feeling like happy, sad, angry. And, you know, it's the same thing in relationships. Usually when we feel jealous, what we do is we demand that our partner change their behavior so we don't have to do insecurities. Right? Like, how dare you?

How dare you talk to your ex? How dare you look at that pretty barista? And so they're forcing you to change your behaviors they don't have to do. As opposed to, hey, babe, I got really jealous when you called your ex. And I know you guys have been friends long before you met me. Can I just talk it through with you? I think I'm going through some stuff. Can you just hear me out for a little bit?

How dare you talk to your ex? How dare you look at that pretty barista? And so they're forcing you to change your behaviors they don't have to do. As opposed to, hey, babe, I got really jealous when you called your ex. And I know you guys have been friends long before you met me. Can I just talk it through with you? I think I'm going through some stuff. Can you just hear me out for a little bit?

Now, then you may say, you know what? I'm going to talk to her less because I want to be supportive on you and your journey. But that's your choice to change your behavior in support of your partner. Yes. Uh, but I think it's the same in work stuff. The ability to understand that jealousy is a feeling, and it's your feeling. And you need to be able to deal with your and your insecurities.

Now, then you may say, you know what? I'm going to talk to her less because I want to be supportive on you and your journey. But that's your choice to change your behavior in support of your partner. Yes. Uh, but I think it's the same in work stuff. The ability to understand that jealousy is a feeling, and it's your feeling. And you need to be able to deal with your and your insecurities.

And you can't be mad at your friend for being successful. You can't be mad at your friend for achieving something that you wish you could achieve. But you can look at yourself and saying, am I not doing something or am I? And this is why we go back to what I said before, which is work towards the thing that you want to do. And then if you achieve it, accept that you won.

And you can't be mad at your friend for being successful. You can't be mad at your friend for achieving something that you wish you could achieve. But you can look at yourself and saying, am I not doing something or am I? And this is why we go back to what I said before, which is work towards the thing that you want to do. And then if you achieve it, accept that you won.