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Simone Stolzoff

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1847 total appearances

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Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

And I think that's sort of like the intersection of the two books, where if we take table stakes, the idea that there is no perfect job out there, we must be willing to trust our future selves and understand, okay, maybe AI is undermining my industry.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

Maybe I don't know exactly what my 10-year plan is going to be, but I have built my uncertainty tolerance and I'm able to be resilient in the face of all this change.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

We have to be willing to live with a kind of uncertainty that none of us likes.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

Well, as I mentioned earlier, I'm a new parent, so my schedule is a little bit more in flux than it used to be.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

I'm grateful to say that I work for myself.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

So for the last five years or so, I've been an independent author, trying to make it as a full-time author living in San Francisco, one of the most expensive cities in the world.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

But there are some choices that we've made structurally to make that more possible.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

One is I live with my wife, my son, my mom, and my stepdad.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

So we have this intergenerational home, and I live in my childhood home, the same house that I grew up in.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

And having that level of support provides some buffer, both from a childcare perspective and from a work perspective.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

And so there's this distinction that I make in my first book between what are called integrators and segmenters.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

Integrators are people whose jobs integrate throughout their day.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

They might do a little work in the morning, go on a run, go to the grocery store, come back, do a little work, hang out with their kids, have some dinner, do work after dinner.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

Whereas segmenters are the people that want to

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

log on at 9 a.m., log off at 5, and then not open the laptop ever again.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

I'm very much an integrator.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

So I work in small pockets.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

I try to keep my mornings reserved for creative work.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

So output like writing that requires a little bit more of that deep work and do more of my administrative tasks in the afternoon.

Before Breakfast
How to be OK with uncertainty, with Simone Stolzoff

But every day looks a little bit different for me.