Sophie

My name's Sophie.

I'm 33, and I started dating a guy that told me he loved me on the second date, and I don't know what to do.

A little bit of backstory.

No, I didn't.

I said, why would you say that?

yeah so important i guess backstory is that i just got i just actually just got divorced um earlier this year um i was in that relationship for 10 years um it was

Emotionally abusive, there was a lot to it.

I'm much better off now.

I was anxious to get back into dating because I never really dated in my 20s.

I went right from college into this relationship.

And so over the summer, I was just having fun, not taking anything too seriously, really trying to learn more about myself through dating and what I like, what I don't like.

And so I met this guy on one of the apps.

We talked for like a little bit off and on before like we finally set a first date.

And when we did, the first date was awesome.

Like instant chemistry, great eye contact.

We aligned on like a lot of the same like core values, things like that.

We ended up hanging out three times within that first week of meeting each other.

And yeah, the second date is when he said he loved me.

How did he say it?

we were kissing and he pulled away and said, I love you.