Sophie

um it would just be like little thing like if if he had to see her for like a drop-off pickup scenario like she would say things that were like triggering to him like she would say like oh you know the kid has like a fever why didn't you notice that and he was like i was literally with him all day like i didn't i didn't notice that i would have you know he was acting fine like things like that i would just be like little little things but you think that's yeah i guess maybe that's yeah

it was more like a, how's your day going?

Like, Oh, I'm dealing with this.

Like she's just being ridiculous.

And it's, and he wouldn't dig into it too much.

I would say it was like in, in passing.

Um, but yeah, he, he definitely talked more, but I was also like withholding a little bit of sharing my story with him just because I wanted to make sure that like things were good.

And now I'm kind of glad I guess that I didn't, unless he thought I was putting walls up.

Um,

I mean listen um I think for the time being mentally you're you need to be done right what if he reaches out like um I guess it really depends on what he says it's not fair to you his like actions to back up what he was saying before because now like he hasn't he hasn't made any commitment to see he literally hasn't seen me since he left that morning

Yeah.

Yeah, exactly.

Yeah, yeah.

And honestly, like, I'm in a better place now than I was two weeks ago with it.

Because I, like, historically in my past relationship have been, like, a really anxious, attached person.

And I felt, like, I thought I got over it.

I think I was just over that relationship.

So I wasn't as anxiously attached.

But now with this guy...

it was like when he was pulling back, like I was, I all of a sudden was like seeking that validation from him and I was recognizing it and being like trying to check myself on it.