Sophie

I just said, like, it's been a shitty week.

No, I think that is normal.

Like, I don't need to... Yeah, if he wants to have a guy... All right, so we do acknowledge that.

yeah yeah for sure so he did that like i didn't really hear from him for a couple days like the the communication just totally changed since me meeting his family and then him spending the night like it he was always texting me and then it kind of went to nothing so where are we where are we now today

Yeah.

So I had texted him about a week ago and said like, Hey, just straight up.

Like I, I've noticed that you've pulled back.

Um, if you don't have the time or the energy to do this, that's fine.

Like I am still interested in you, but I need consistency is my,

what i said and he said um he apologized and said i've been really busy and he he acknowledged the fact that he moved too fast and he basically freaked himself out and he shut his feelings off and he was like but i am still interested in you and he said that like multiple times because i was like are you sure because like i'm giving you an easy out here and it doesn't seem like you want this and he was like no i do so when was the last thing you heard from him

So he texted me like a couple days after that, like trying to be consistent.

And then I hadn't heard then didn't text me for another couple days, which again, like, that's fine.

I knew he was going out of town last weekend.

And so I had texted him earlier in the week and was like, I'd like to see you this week before you go out of town.

And his response was just like really noncommittal.

Like I'll try, but you know, this, that, and I knew that that's a no.

Um, so I haven't texted him since that.

Um, yeah.

And so I'm telling myself now that like, I should just let this go, but it's just crazy that it was such a high to like all of a sudden the rug being like pulled out from under me.

Right.