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Stacy London

👤 Speaker
375 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

If it's family, you can't get rid of them, right? You can just be like, nobody asked for your opinion, Mom, thanks, right? That's one, I think it's really important to stand up for yourself. Like, and what not to wear, there was a sign that said, no miniskirts after 35, because at that time, we said, look, this is not age appropriate. If it works for you. I don't care.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

I don't care whether you're skinny or you're curvy or you're plus size or you're petite or you're an extra tall. I don't care. If you feel the way you want to feel in that miniskirt, there is nobody who can tell you otherwise. And you can tell your family to stuff it. Ich liebe das. Ich denke, wir müssen das hören. We've said age appropriate for a long time. We've also put too much value.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

I don't care whether you're skinny or you're curvy or you're plus size or you're petite or you're an extra tall. I don't care. If you feel the way you want to feel in that miniskirt, there is nobody who can tell you otherwise. And you can tell your family to stuff it. Ich liebe das. Ich denke, wir müssen das hören. We've said age appropriate for a long time. We've also put too much value.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

I don't care whether you're skinny or you're curvy or you're plus size or you're petite or you're an extra tall. I don't care. If you feel the way you want to feel in that miniskirt, there is nobody who can tell you otherwise. And you can tell your family to stuff it. Ich liebe das. Ich denke, wir müssen das hören. We've said age appropriate for a long time. We've also put too much value.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

And this is where I talk about societal and contextual. We put a lot of value on what other people think. Now, what you wear matters if it is going to get you what you want as well. So, for example, I always talk about the suit. If you are job interviewing at a bank that's 200 years old and it's old and it's The latex suit could work at the bank too, depending on how you want to show things off.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

And this is where I talk about societal and contextual. We put a lot of value on what other people think. Now, what you wear matters if it is going to get you what you want as well. So, for example, I always talk about the suit. If you are job interviewing at a bank that's 200 years old and it's old and it's The latex suit could work at the bank too, depending on how you want to show things off.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

And this is where I talk about societal and contextual. We put a lot of value on what other people think. Now, what you wear matters if it is going to get you what you want as well. So, for example, I always talk about the suit. If you are job interviewing at a bank that's 200 years old and it's old and it's The latex suit could work at the bank too, depending on how you want to show things off.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Depending on what you're there for. How you want things to shake out. So like maybe somebody hires you at the bank just not to work at the bank. Right. But I'm just saying contextually, we want people to accept us so we can move further in our lives. That's what that public opinion should be about. Public opinion by itself should make no difference in our sense of self. It's so hard.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Depending on what you're there for. How you want things to shake out. So like maybe somebody hires you at the bank just not to work at the bank. Right. But I'm just saying contextually, we want people to accept us so we can move further in our lives. That's what that public opinion should be about. Public opinion by itself should make no difference in our sense of self. It's so hard.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Depending on what you're there for. How you want things to shake out. So like maybe somebody hires you at the bank just not to work at the bank. Right. But I'm just saying contextually, we want people to accept us so we can move further in our lives. That's what that public opinion should be about. Public opinion by itself should make no difference in our sense of self. It's so hard.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Yeah, I wish that I had really understood that I was lacking so much self-esteem as a child, because then I would have known what to work on. I remember that You know, I'm a New York City kid, right? My parents got divorced when I was four. They threw me into therapy because that's what you did in the 70s.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Yeah, I wish that I had really understood that I was lacking so much self-esteem as a child, because then I would have known what to work on. I remember that You know, I'm a New York City kid, right? My parents got divorced when I was four. They threw me into therapy because that's what you did in the 70s.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Yeah, I wish that I had really understood that I was lacking so much self-esteem as a child, because then I would have known what to work on. I remember that You know, I'm a New York City kid, right? My parents got divorced when I was four. They threw me into therapy because that's what you did in the 70s.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Your parents get divorced, you throw the kid into therapy so she doesn't become like a serial killer or whatever. I don't know. But I didn't know what was wrong with me. I didn't know what I was feeling. And I, for a long time, felt that I... I look back on those child therapists and I'm like, they should not have a license. I mean, a lot of them just did nothing but sort of actually... Wow.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Your parents get divorced, you throw the kid into therapy so she doesn't become like a serial killer or whatever. I don't know. But I didn't know what was wrong with me. I didn't know what I was feeling. And I, for a long time, felt that I... I look back on those child therapists and I'm like, they should not have a license. I mean, a lot of them just did nothing but sort of actually... Wow.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Your parents get divorced, you throw the kid into therapy so she doesn't become like a serial killer or whatever. I don't know. But I didn't know what was wrong with me. I didn't know what I was feeling. And I, for a long time, felt that I... I look back on those child therapists and I'm like, they should not have a license. I mean, a lot of them just did nothing but sort of actually... Wow.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Und wirklich, wiederum, das ist alles Arbeit, die du selbst tun musst. Es ist großartig, als ein early childhood development. Oh Gott, hier gehe ich. Ich bin ein bisschen intellektuell. Michael Winnicott spricht über early childhood development und sagt, dass einer der Wege, wie Kinder wirklich ihre eigene Person werden. How did you figure out you were missing it?

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Und wirklich, wiederum, das ist alles Arbeit, die du selbst tun musst. Es ist großartig, als ein early childhood development. Oh Gott, hier gehe ich. Ich bin ein bisschen intellektuell. Michael Winnicott spricht über early childhood development und sagt, dass einer der Wege, wie Kinder wirklich ihre eigene Person werden. How did you figure out you were missing it?

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Und wirklich, wiederum, das ist alles Arbeit, die du selbst tun musst. Es ist großartig, als ein early childhood development. Oh Gott, hier gehe ich. Ich bin ein bisschen intellektuell. Michael Winnicott spricht über early childhood development und sagt, dass einer der Wege, wie Kinder wirklich ihre eigene Person werden. How did you figure out you were missing it?

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

You know, by my actions, really by who I have spent time with. Also... What I've settled for in my life, you know, staying in jobs for longer than I wanted to, being with partners that were probably wrong for me. I think that a lot of choices that I've made in my life, I chose things out of a low sense of self-esteem, a low sense of self-worth and really no self-awareness.