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Stacy London

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
375 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

You know, by my actions, really by who I have spent time with. Also... What I've settled for in my life, you know, staying in jobs for longer than I wanted to, being with partners that were probably wrong for me. I think that a lot of choices that I've made in my life, I chose things out of a low sense of self-esteem, a low sense of self-worth and really no self-awareness.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

You know, by my actions, really by who I have spent time with. Also... What I've settled for in my life, you know, staying in jobs for longer than I wanted to, being with partners that were probably wrong for me. I think that a lot of choices that I've made in my life, I chose things out of a low sense of self-esteem, a low sense of self-worth and really no self-awareness.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Self-awareness, that is, it is hard to face the dark side of yourself. It is hard to face the ugly, mean, yucky, spiteful, jealous, gross, awful side of yourself. Do you feel like you do it now? I do.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Self-awareness, that is, it is hard to face the dark side of yourself. It is hard to face the ugly, mean, yucky, spiteful, jealous, gross, awful side of yourself. Do you feel like you do it now? I do.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Self-awareness, that is, it is hard to face the dark side of yourself. It is hard to face the ugly, mean, yucky, spiteful, jealous, gross, awful side of yourself. Do you feel like you do it now? I do.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

No, no, no. Because you have to face those things and accept them. Not be embarrassed and ashamed of them. Because again, that shadow side of yourself, that darker side of yourself... We all have it. And to ignore it is to live in a way that is not aware, right?

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

No, no, no. Because you have to face those things and accept them. Not be embarrassed and ashamed of them. Because again, that shadow side of yourself, that darker side of yourself... We all have it. And to ignore it is to live in a way that is not aware, right?

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

No, no, no. Because you have to face those things and accept them. Not be embarrassed and ashamed of them. Because again, that shadow side of yourself, that darker side of yourself... We all have it. And to ignore it is to live in a way that is not aware, right?

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Instead of just being mean and spiteful because I've been triggered, now I can say, wow, somebody triggered me and I am feeling really mean and spiteful. Okay, what am I going to do with that? Well, now I know to talk about it. I feel mean, I feel spiteful, I feel awful, I feel so angry, I feel this.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Instead of just being mean and spiteful because I've been triggered, now I can say, wow, somebody triggered me and I am feeling really mean and spiteful. Okay, what am I going to do with that? Well, now I know to talk about it. I feel mean, I feel spiteful, I feel awful, I feel so angry, I feel this.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Instead of just being mean and spiteful because I've been triggered, now I can say, wow, somebody triggered me and I am feeling really mean and spiteful. Okay, what am I going to do with that? Well, now I know to talk about it. I feel mean, I feel spiteful, I feel awful, I feel so angry, I feel this.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

It would have been amazing. But it would have been amazing to know that it was okay to admit to feeling like a shitty person instead of trying to hide it and be perfect and lovely all the time, like most women are taught to do. So anytime a woman is called unlikable or difficult, I struggle with that because I'm like... Who says that she's unlikable and difficult? And why?

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

It would have been amazing. But it would have been amazing to know that it was okay to admit to feeling like a shitty person instead of trying to hide it and be perfect and lovely all the time, like most women are taught to do. So anytime a woman is called unlikable or difficult, I struggle with that because I'm like... Who says that she's unlikable and difficult? And why?

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

It would have been amazing. But it would have been amazing to know that it was okay to admit to feeling like a shitty person instead of trying to hide it and be perfect and lovely all the time, like most women are taught to do. So anytime a woman is called unlikable or difficult, I struggle with that because I'm like... Who says that she's unlikable and difficult? And why?

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Because if you have boundaries and you are a person who knows themselves and knows their worth, you're not going to put up with a bunch of shit.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Because if you have boundaries and you are a person who knows themselves and knows their worth, you're not going to put up with a bunch of shit.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Because if you have boundaries and you are a person who knows themselves and knows their worth, you're not going to put up with a bunch of shit.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Of course you can. And I used to be afraid of those people because I was like, wow, they're so strong, so tough. And now those are the people I admire most.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Of course you can. And I used to be afraid of those people because I was like, wow, they're so strong, so tough. And now those are the people I admire most.

The Tamsen Show
Stacy London: Reinvent Yourself (and Your Style) in Midlife

Of course you can. And I used to be afraid of those people because I was like, wow, they're so strong, so tough. And now those are the people I admire most.