Stephan Speaks

It depends. I think there are some women who convince themselves... There's plenty of women who have taken a man from a woman or who have accepted that man leaving one woman for her and to her, she's good. As long as she's getting what she needs, she's good. But I do think that in the back of their head, Once something starts to go wrong, that's when those thoughts start to creep in.

It depends. I think there are some women who convince themselves... There's plenty of women who have taken a man from a woman or who have accepted that man leaving one woman for her and to her, she's good. As long as she's getting what she needs, she's good. But I do think that in the back of their head, Once something starts to go wrong, that's when those thoughts start to creep in.

I wonder if he's talking to someone else. Why isn't he giving me the attention anymore? Exactly. And now, and I think it's even more likely that someone who knows about the situation will remind her, well, you got him this way, so you might lose him the same. And now the insecurities really start to kick in and it starts to become a huge problem.

I wonder if he's talking to someone else. Why isn't he giving me the attention anymore? Exactly. And now, and I think it's even more likely that someone who knows about the situation will remind her, well, you got him this way, so you might lose him the same. And now the insecurities really start to kick in and it starts to become a huge problem.

I'm going to say spiritual attraction. More than sexual attraction. But I'm saying that with hesitancy. You're pausing. I'm not 100%. The only reason why I'm leaning towards spiritual is because I believe that women value intimacy, non-sexual intimacy way more than actual just raw sex, okay.

I'm going to say spiritual attraction. More than sexual attraction. But I'm saying that with hesitancy. You're pausing. I'm not 100%. The only reason why I'm leaning towards spiritual is because I believe that women value intimacy, non-sexual intimacy way more than actual just raw sex, okay.

So, if you had door number one hugs, kisses, caresses, you know, being emotionally available, door number two just straight sex. Women are choosing, most women are choosing door number one, most men are choosing door number two.

So, if you had door number one hugs, kisses, caresses, you know, being emotionally available, door number two just straight sex. Women are choosing, most women are choosing door number one, most men are choosing door number two.

And so, because of that value for the deeper levels of intimacy I feel like spiritual attraction kind of fortifies that whereas sexual attraction may not get them those things. So, that's why I would pick spiritual attraction.

And so, because of that value for the deeper levels of intimacy I feel like spiritual attraction kind of fortifies that whereas sexual attraction may not get them those things. So, that's why I would pick spiritual attraction.

I would say they would have to become their most confident, masculine self. whatever that looks like. It's going to look different for every guy but at the foundation of it there must be confidence in who he is and he must exude that masculine energy. Not saying there aren't men who can't get them a loving partner not being the most masculine dude, but

I would say they would have to become their most confident, masculine self. whatever that looks like. It's going to look different for every guy but at the foundation of it there must be confidence in who he is and he must exude that masculine energy. Not saying there aren't men who can't get them a loving partner not being the most masculine dude, but

you have a better chance at achieving it when you can walk in your masculine energy that's the power of the man.

you have a better chance at achieving it when you can walk in your masculine energy that's the power of the man.

Well, I think lacking confidence it undermines the masculine energy. It's hard to be that masculine presence if you are lacking in self-esteem, lacking in self-respect. The things you're going to allow a woman to get away with is going to start to lose cause her to lose attraction for you.

Well, I think lacking confidence it undermines the masculine energy. It's hard to be that masculine presence if you are lacking in self-esteem, lacking in self-respect. The things you're going to allow a woman to get away with is going to start to lose cause her to lose attraction for you.

So, it's almost like if you become her yes man a lot of women don't want a yes man most women don't want a yes man. It might sound good to some initially but over time she gets tired of the fact that you can't think for yourself that you aren't giving your own perspective that you aren't confident enough to stand in your own vision and your plan. So,

So, it's almost like if you become her yes man a lot of women don't want a yes man most women don't want a yes man. It might sound good to some initially but over time she gets tired of the fact that you can't think for yourself that you aren't giving your own perspective that you aren't confident enough to stand in your own vision and your plan. So,

that immediately takes you out of your masculine energy because now you're trying to become so accommodating to the point that you've lost yourself in that process and that doesn't work well in the long term.

that immediately takes you out of your masculine energy because now you're trying to become so accommodating to the point that you've lost yourself in that process and that doesn't work well in the long term.