Stephanie

That's not my MO.

So I would say the husband was a lot more forgiving and understanding of the situation.

He was more understanding of where I was coming from.

He didn't take it as me trying to like defame his character.

He did.

He did.

He said, I apologize if I... It was more so of an apology of like, I'm sorry it came across that way.

You know what I mean?

It was more so... It was an apology, but also I think they were more so just worried about his character and trying to fix that.

That's how it felt to me.

Because it was a lot of like, they definitely apologized, but then it would backtrack to various other things.

Like he asked me if, because the time that he had messaged me, I was postpartum.

And he asked me, well, when this happened, was it around the time that you had the baby?

Kind of insinuating that maybe my hormones.

He asked me that and I, it was things like that.

So it was like, there'd be an apology, but then there'd be like comments like that.

So then it left off in a weird spot of like, we're, we're okay, but there's definitely still underlying things.

You know what I mean?

And I did apologize for my part.

Cause I said, listen, I a hundred percent.