Steven Setu

Right.

Well, my mom never really wanted to belittle my father, ever.

And that's one thing I applaud about my mom, is that she never wanted me to have a bad image of my father, because I am my son's father.

And she never wanted to tell me.

My mom always believed in speaking about positivity.

So she would always say, well, he's gone, he's gone, until I start to realize, well, when is he coming back?

You said he's coming back every single Christmas.

Then my mum had to get a little bit real with me and tell me, well, you know, actually he's moved on.

And I felt betrayed.

I felt resentment.

I was like, how dare he?

He promised that he was going to come back.

You know, he went to get the milk and then, you know, he ended up being with a cow.

Pardon the pun.

Yeah.

So, yeah, it's just been – that's been me.

But I grew up with my mum and –

My mom gave me a lot of feminine energy.

And there was a point in time, because remember these three brothers, including myself, and these two sisters, including myself.

My mom would literally split the line in the middle and say, these are the boys and these are the girls.