Steven Wolt

Pretty nice.

And I think also that secrecy can lead to shame.

I mean, I'm still waiting to get the birds and bees conversation from dad.

Well, no one's coming to rescue us, right?

You've got to take accountability in your own life.

But I think you really eloquently kind of laid out the dynamics that porn abuse can have in relationships.

Did I really?

You really did.

That was really well said.

You know it now, the only way you learn and grow.

And you often see when men abuse porn over time, they can lose attraction for their partners, because they can't compete with porn.

I mean, how unfair is that?

There could be less desire for romance.

I'll say it again.

Pornography abuse burns off the nerve endings of sensuality in relationships.

Less touching, holding, kissing, caressing.

So if I'm watching porn, maybe I don't notice the waves in my wife's hair.

If I'm watching porn, we hold hands less perhaps.

So pornography abuse can deaden the vibrancy of our partners, our wives, and our marriages.

It's like being hooked up to an Ivy drip of shame.