Steven Zuber

And the, I guess there's something ironic about having this lesson taught to you by somebody who's an authority, right?

If the, if the lesson is don't trust authorities, how can I trust this received wisdom then from, from the authority?

But I guess, cause you can see it for yourself.

It's tough because I do love the lesson.

And if I were to get tattoos, especially if I were to get tattoo words or sentiments on me, that'd be the one I got.

But...

I don't want people to, I don't, I don't want the lesson to be for everybody.

You can't count on people.

Yeah.

Cause that is kind of the lesson.

Um, you, you know, it, it means that ultimately it has to be you.

Yeah.

But, uh,

know maybe i'll spend my time dissecting heroic wisdom because i think i think that there's a there's a way that it twists that i've i've found the the dance along the razor's edge of like constantly blaming myself for stuff and uh

some of the missteps would be putting the responsibility on everybody else instead of myself or something.

But I don't know if it's as easy as just being told, you have to do the Spider-Man level of responsibility, right?

Because some people, some impressionable young children like me who watch Spider-Man cartoons might internalize that a little too hard.

But that doesn't mean it's wrong to internalize.

I think it just needs to be delivered the right way.

And the book does a great way of doing it.