Steven

And I think it really helps.

Why? Why no pressure?

Why? Why no pressure?

I guess the starting point then, as you said, is the communication part, right? Because you can't even get to that point if you're in a situation. I've been in that situation once in my sexual history where it was so awkward that the awkwardness just compounds where you're not even speaking about something. And so you're getting in bed. It's a hot potato.

I guess the starting point then, as you said, is the communication part, right? Because you can't even get to that point if you're in a situation. I've been in that situation once in my sexual history where it was so awkward that the awkwardness just compounds where you're not even speaking about something. And so you're getting in bed. It's a hot potato.

Laying in silence and, oh, my God, he's thinking about it and I'm thinking about it.

Laying in silence and, oh, my God, he's thinking about it and I'm thinking about it.

She's thinking about it and I hope he doesn't laugh and I'll pretend to sleep and all of that stuff. I've been there.

She's thinking about it and I hope he doesn't laugh and I'll pretend to sleep and all of that stuff. I've been there.

And really what broke it was the two things you said. The first thing was you've got to talk about it. And the second thing was removing the pressure. Right. And the blame. Yeah. And the judgment. Yeah.

And really what broke it was the two things you said. The first thing was you've got to talk about it. And the second thing was removing the pressure. Right. And the blame. Yeah. And the judgment. Yeah.

And if you can get there, and I think much of the reason why people don't want to talk about it sometimes is because they might have a little bit of a risk that if they're honest about how they're feeling, then the other person might leave, or they might be mad, or they might not hang around long enough for you to fix it together. And also, you don't know how to fix it.

And if you can get there, and I think much of the reason why people don't want to talk about it sometimes is because they might have a little bit of a risk that if they're honest about how they're feeling, then the other person might leave, or they might be mad, or they might not hang around long enough for you to fix it together. And also, you don't know how to fix it.

So it's difficult sometimes in life to say, I've got a problem, but I have no idea what the solution is. You know?

So it's difficult sometimes in life to say, I've got a problem, but I have no idea what the solution is. You know?

What's that?

What's that?

Is that your bum?

Is that your bum?

Okay.