Steven

You don't want to drop your career and focus on raising my children.

I've got this on video. That's legally binding.

I've got this on video. That's legally binding.

So if my kid says, I want that pack of sweets, and I go, you can't have that pack of sweets.

So if my kid says, I want that pack of sweets, and I go, you can't have that pack of sweets.

And then they start screaming and crying.

And then they start screaming and crying.

I mean, that's what all the relationship experts on the show tell me. They say if you want to be successful in a romantic relationship, then you first must make your partner feel heard and understood.

I mean, that's what all the relationship experts on the show tell me. They say if you want to be successful in a romantic relationship, then you first must make your partner feel heard and understood.

Even if you disagree in an argument, first acknowledge what they said, maybe repeat it back to them. And then they'll feel heard and understood. And it kind of stops the broken record. Do you think that I'm a traumatized child?

Even if you disagree in an argument, first acknowledge what they said, maybe repeat it back to them. And then they'll feel heard and understood. And it kind of stops the broken record. Do you think that I'm a traumatized child?

And what do you mean by the relational nuances? It could be the... Neglect. Neglect.

And what do you mean by the relational nuances? It could be the... Neglect. Neglect.

Primary attachment figure, you mean the mother?

Primary attachment figure, you mean the mother?

It can be the father.

It can be the father.

Can't you both do half each?

Can't you both do half each?

I'm looking at some stats here in front of me on a graph, which I was just reading as you were explaining that, because it seems to be quite relevant. And it shows that in 1960, one in 10 mothers were the sole primary breadwinner. Now it's almost at half. It's on its way to half.