Susan Grau

But what I've learned throughout my journey, and I still don't always listen, so I've learned it, but I don't always follow it, which is, of course, the human condition, isn't it?

But what I've learned is that I'm not going to receive everything in my own timing, that it's not going to look exactly how I want it to look.

And I don't have to try to control it.

I can do the next right thing, do the footwork, and everything else will unfold as it's meant to.

Absolutely.

I think about my journey.

And like I've shared in the last podcast, I have a lot of death by suicide in my family, both my brothers and my mother.

And I went through infertility and I went through bad adoptions.

There's all these things that I had to experience.

And now in my life, I help people with those things.

I don't think I would have been capable of helping them had I not understood it.

I think that book knowledge is important, but it is not living knowledge.

And when you live a particular way in life, that knowledge becomes real and the understanding of how to heal that.

Now, we have tons of people on the planet that go through a lot and never heal anything.

And they're trying to help people, unfortunately.

Heal thyself and then be willing to open that door to helping others.

But every experience I've ever had has been a door for me.

Every wrong decision has been a lesson and a means to find the right decision.

The script tells us don't make a bad decision, right?

The script we learn as children, don't be bad, don't do it wrong, do it right, get good grades, all these scripts we learn.