Suzanne Noble

And it wasn't really until I was 60 that I thought about all of the stuff that I had done and the stuff that I hadn't done for a long time and thought, I wonder what would happen if at 60, because I was single again,

If it's 60, I went back to doing some of the things, not all the things, because some of them I realized I wasn't all that into.

But, you know, some of the things that I did before to see if I still had any interest in them or not.

If I was just going to take up knitting and making soup, you know.

Yeah, yeah.

I had some very nice relationships with people where, but I then got to the point where the last person that I was with back in sort of 2022, sadly, he died.

And we, you know, we had a very, very normal relationship.

And at that point, I was like, you know what?

What if I just go back to some of the things I used to do and see if I still like them, but without the same attachment to them, without the same, like,

you know, intensity, if you like, of that, but with a sense of fun and a sense of, like, curiosity.

Exactly.

And so I met up with a French guy and he said, you know, I'd like to go to some of the English clubs.

I've never been to them before.

Let's see what it would be like.

And I said, you know what?

I haven't done this for so long.

You're, you know, is a super nice guy.

Again, like not a deep relationship, just like a casual relationship.

And so...

I started going back to these clubs and made a little spreadsheet with him of all the ones that we visited and with a little review next to them.