Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1428 - Swinging Then, Swinging Now: Suzanne is Still Going Strong in Her 60s
15 Apr 2026
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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?
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Chapter 2: How did Suzanne's swinging journey begin after her divorce?
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kind of on and off for six years, but not in a serious way, just in a fantasy execution kind of way that he was very dominating and very, yeah, he kind of took control, which I realized I actually really enjoyed. And so, yeah, we just, we just went to parties. We went to clubs. We went to a naturist village in France called the Cap d'Ag, which is a,
a crazy place where during the high season, you know, during the summer, there's like 40,000 people that live in this nature's town and all sorts of stuff goes on there. And that was, that was crazy fun. And yeah, we just did all these.
But what's interesting is you're in all these like very risky places, but you didn't do anything besides like screw other guys solo. You didn't live out your sexual fantasies in that relationship where you were like you could have. No, I'm surprised.
Yeah. I mean, I wanted to I mean, we had like a set group of people that we would meet up with.
And yeah, I mean, I would say that threesomes you didn't like hook up with women. You didn't try any of those things, even though you're in that world kind of where kind of anything goes.
No, I did all those things.
Oh, OK. So what kind of fucking fantasies did you have after all of that? You don't know how to tell a story.
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Chapter 3: What negative experiences did Suzanne encounter in the swinging lifestyle?
OK, you got to tell those stories. Your first time with a woman, your three. I mean, you're telling, you know, yourself. It sounds like you left that thing and you were like a virgin and then you lived out your fantasies. It sounds like you lived out fantasies with him, too.
Yeah, yeah. I mean, with the swinging guy that I was with for six years. I mean, we spent two years only having threesomes with basically other men, right? Okay. Yeah, we met other couples. We went to the cap tag with other couples. We... I don't know. What did we do? I mean, God, you know.
Sounds like you did so much that it doesn't even stand out to you as interesting. But for my people, it is, you know what I'm saying?
So did you enjoy all of those? I wrote two books about it, you know.
I know, but we need your story. I talked to you for an hour.
You gotta, you know. I guess the thing that struck me and the reason why I ended up writing this book was that At the end of about a year after the guy had died, I was looking at my life and it was like I was rotating up, you know, a bunch of men. There were probably about six men or something that I was seeing, you know, at various points.
And then we had this kind of relationship with this guy where we'd go off to clubs and things. And I reflected on where I'd been, you know, that I'd been in this married person and I'd had kids and I'd done things. fairly traditional stuff. And I thought about all the things that I'd done since then and subsequent to then.
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Chapter 4: How has Suzanne's approach to sex and intimacy changed over time?
And I thought, if I don't write it down, I'm never going to remember it. And even now, like when I talk to you, you're like, what have I done? Some of it, you know, it was 20 years ago. Some of it is like kind of fades into memory because I started to think about
when you get involved in it you know and i got involved i i had a tantra teacher and then i learned a lot about tantra i had a couple of tantra partners i had a dom partner who was really got me into kind of like bsm taught me about a little bit about pain pleasure you know i had the The experiences with threesomes and with couples and with women.
And, you know, after a while, you sort of look at all of this. And I guess it's a bit like when you've watched too much porn. You do get to the point where one of the things that starts to stand out is the lack of intimacy, like genuine intimacy in these situations. You sort of get to... a point where you're just always trying to get to the next high.
You know, the next kind of risky situation, like how much can I go? Can I do banks? Can I do this? Can I do that? Um, And it did get to the point after a while where I missed actually just having genuine intimacy in my life.
I had a girl on named Casey who was very hardcore. And she was like, you know, she was saying one time to me, like after she was talking about all the 50 gangbangs she had, and she was like, you know, gagging over her guy's cock in front of 10 guys. Like she was like, you know, we wonder sometimes what we're going to do next.
I'm like, maybe you're just going to have like, you know, missionary style sex, and that's going to be hot. Yeah. Because like, where do you go after you've been everywhere? You know, maybe you do go back to the beginning, right? You know, maybe that is what becomes hot at that time because you're so far from that at that point, right?
Completely. And I think also it becomes kind of a very dangerous situation to get into. I mean, lots of people that I started engaging with, especially women in clubs, if they were women that like being with lots of guys and those women would start getting offered money, right? The clubs would start paying them. Yeah, yeah.
Because there were women that I met on the scene that one of their things was they weren't going to leave the club until every guy had got off. And of course, those women are really valuable to To swingers clubs. And so those clubs would start paying them.
And once you start getting paid. But maybe that's because it was so long ago that there weren't a lot of women that would engage. And there's so many more women that are in touch with their sexuality and down now that they don't need to do that. I don't know.
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Chapter 5: Why did Suzanne decide to return to swinging at 60?
And I look at people, I'm like, yeah, I've seen people having sex before. And, you know, that's parts are going into the other part. Interesting.
Yeah.
You know, whereas, whereas if somebody sends me like a sexy text message, or,
says I can't wait to get my hands all over your hot body or something like my my brain starts going oh yeah I really want it I'm really looking forward to that like it has to be far more contextual yeah maybe that's great advice for guys that are listening for their wives who are maybe older maybe in menopause and need that kind of revving up you know Yeah, definitely.
And I think a lot of women I know say to me, oh, but it's not like it used to be when I was younger. It's like, no, it's not. I mean, I spoke to somebody today on my podcast and she was just like, oh, I tell couples that have like mismatched libidos or perhaps don't have that spontaneity and want to
just want to know like are you up for it because their partner isn't always up for it like put a chocolate in a cup in the morning and if another person puts the chocolate in the cup that means that it's on game on right that's fun like right like little make it a game like put create little signals somebody else told me just put a coffee cup on the counter and
And if the coffee cup goes back in the cupboard, that means it's not on. If the coffee cup stays on the counter, that means it's on. Like, you know, whatever you need to do to kind of indicate to your partner, like, yeah, I'm up for it.
Well, listen, it also sounds very intentional and you have to be. And a lot of times some people, it's like, what comes first? Like the loss of the libido or, and then the desire, and then they don't even want to be intentional about it. You know what I mean? There's no desire to even put that piece of chocolate in there. They don't even want to, they don't think about it, you know, but-
I think you have to kind of be intentional about it and make sure, you know, I think as you get older, that's every part of your life. You know, you have to intentionally decide I'm not going to be bitter. I'm not, you know, I'm going to be happy today if not, you know, because life could just take you over and you could just forget about these things.
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Chapter 6: What fantasies did Suzanne explore while swinging?
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