Suzanne

Okay. So I have a question. Um, I just recently found out that my husband, uh, um, the total of the credit card debt that he's got is I'm guessing and assuming, or not getting assuming, but guessing 60 to 80,000. And I just keep finding out little things here and there of more. And, uh, My goal, our goal was supposed to be to get a house and move out of, you know, where we're at.

And the choices that he continues to make, for example, on wanting a couch, that would mean going from like a $100 couch, he wants like $2,000 to $4,000 couch, and get into that debt. And now he brought up this morning that the easiest way we can get out of debt is to do a consolidation loan All the debt is put into one payment, and I feel it's like getting into more debt. It's not biblical.

And the choices that he continues to make, for example, on wanting a couch, that would mean going from like a $100 couch, he wants like $2,000 to $4,000 couch, and get into that debt. And now he brought up this morning that the easiest way we can get out of debt is to do a consolidation loan All the debt is put into one payment, and I feel it's like getting into more debt. It's not biblical.

And the choices that he continues to make, for example, on wanting a couch, that would mean going from like a $100 couch, he wants like $2,000 to $4,000 couch, and get into that debt. And now he brought up this morning that the easiest way we can get out of debt is to do a consolidation loan All the debt is put into one payment, and I feel it's like getting into more debt. It's not biblical.

I'm at my wit's end. I don't know how else I could guide him besides saying it's a bad idea, and I don't know what to do, y'all.

I'm at my wit's end. I don't know how else I could guide him besides saying it's a bad idea, and I don't know what to do, y'all.

I'm at my wit's end. I don't know how else I could guide him besides saying it's a bad idea, and I don't know what to do, y'all.

Yes, sir. And I don't know what else to do. I've suggested the budget. No, no, no. I've suggested the app.

Yes, sir. And I don't know what else to do. I've suggested the budget. No, no, no. I've suggested the app.

Yes, sir. And I don't know what else to do. I've suggested the budget. No, no, no. I've suggested the app.

I just brought this up today, and I think this is what led me to the call is I heard – I just want to give you everything you want. It's not true. That is not true. That's a lie. He's lying to you. His conviction is making me feel like I can literally live with an RV, get rid of everything, let's get rid of the debt, sell everything. These are the examples I have given him.

I just brought this up today, and I think this is what led me to the call is I heard – I just want to give you everything you want. It's not true. That is not true. That's a lie. He's lying to you. His conviction is making me feel like I can literally live with an RV, get rid of everything, let's get rid of the debt, sell everything. These are the examples I have given him.

I just brought this up today, and I think this is what led me to the call is I heard – I just want to give you everything you want. It's not true. That is not true. That's a lie. He's lying to you. His conviction is making me feel like I can literally live with an RV, get rid of everything, let's get rid of the debt, sell everything. These are the examples I have given him.

Just let's get rid of everything we don't need. Pay off those cards. Get back up, float, and breathe. And None of that is being heard, and I don't know what to do, y'all.

Just let's get rid of everything we don't need. Pay off those cards. Get back up, float, and breathe. And None of that is being heard, and I don't know what to do, y'all.

Just let's get rid of everything we don't need. Pay off those cards. Get back up, float, and breathe. And None of that is being heard, and I don't know what to do, y'all.

We've been together about seven, eight years and married a little over a year.

We've been together about seven, eight years and married a little over a year.

We've been together about seven, eight years and married a little over a year.

I don't know. He, for the last, I mean, however many years, he's had a work injury, so he's put in on that, he said. When he wasn't working, he put that on the credit cards, and it just, I don't know. What I don't see is why is it so difficult to get rid of material stuff so we can pay this debt off? To me, it's a no-brainer, if that makes sense.