Suze Orman

I'm sure that's exactly what will happen.

So the main thing, however, that I'm worried about isn't so much what happens when they've died.

It's what happens as they get older and older.

And now all of a sudden, do they need nursing care?

What are they going to need?

What if they can't take care of themselves?

Who's going to be responsible for that?

And is that going to fall on you?

So Carla, more than anything, don't worry about after they've died.

That's not going to be a problem.

The problem becomes, what are you going to do as they get older and older and older?

They keep up these bad financial habits.

They get more and more into financial trouble.

What happens?

You need to sit down with them.

You need to be an adult and you need to say, I don't care that you don't want to talk to me about this.

I need to know these things and I want to know them now or else as you get older, if you need my help before you've died, I'm not going to be able to be there for you.

Where does Sue live?

Well, she lives in New York State.

No problem.