Suzy Miller

And whether that's through telepathy or through spelling, once you ask them what they need, if you follow that, that's where you're going to get the most success in their life. ability to integrate.

And whether that's through telepathy or through spelling, once you ask them what they need, if you follow that, that's where you're going to get the most success in their life. ability to integrate.

I truly believe that every single autistic individual is able to learn to spell. It's really just a matter of first creating an invitation. for them to be maybe a little bit more present in their bodies so that they can go about pointing and spelling.

I truly believe that every single autistic individual is able to learn to spell. It's really just a matter of first creating an invitation. for them to be maybe a little bit more present in their bodies so that they can go about pointing and spelling.

I mean, if you have a child 24-7 that's screaming and yelling and doing things that most kids don't do as repetitively as these kids do, you're just managing, right? Most people are just managing. It's really just a matter of first creating an invitation for them to be maybe a little bit more present in their bodies so that they can go about pointing and spelling. So how do we do that?

I mean, if you have a child 24-7 that's screaming and yelling and doing things that most kids don't do as repetitively as these kids do, you're just managing, right? Most people are just managing. It's really just a matter of first creating an invitation for them to be maybe a little bit more present in their bodies so that they can go about pointing and spelling. So how do we do that?

We do that by creating environments that are soothing. If we can take time, to settle back into ourselves. If we can give ourselves a moment of peace, a little moment of meditation, getting outside and connecting with nature, even listening to music that just uplifts our frequency a little bit. choosing to pay attention to things that are lighter in nature instead of heavier.

We do that by creating environments that are soothing. If we can take time, to settle back into ourselves. If we can give ourselves a moment of peace, a little moment of meditation, getting outside and connecting with nature, even listening to music that just uplifts our frequency a little bit. choosing to pay attention to things that are lighter in nature instead of heavier.

And it does take some practice if you've been in that world of management. But the minute we start lightening up, every single time it will lighten up these kids.

And it does take some practice if you've been in that world of management. But the minute we start lightening up, every single time it will lighten up these kids.

Absolutely. Again, these kids read minds. It really is helpful to just believe in the capacity instead of making statements, starting to have questions. And if we just, even just a few moments a day, kind of go, well, I wonder what else is possible. That starts to loosen up the energy a little bit. It starts to loosen up what we're broadcasting. And the kids feel it immediately.

Absolutely. Again, these kids read minds. It really is helpful to just believe in the capacity instead of making statements, starting to have questions. And if we just, even just a few moments a day, kind of go, well, I wonder what else is possible. That starts to loosen up the energy a little bit. It starts to loosen up what we're broadcasting. And the kids feel it immediately.

The other thing that I have told, especially teachers over the years, and this works just as well for a parent as it does for an educator, take the child and write down what they typically hear themselves say about the kids. Like, these are all the words that I use to describe this child. They get a really good idea of what kind of information is being broadcast to the kids. All the time.

The other thing that I have told, especially teachers over the years, and this works just as well for a parent as it does for an educator, take the child and write down what they typically hear themselves say about the kids. Like, these are all the words that I use to describe this child. They get a really good idea of what kind of information is being broadcast to the kids. All the time.

These kids read minds. They're paying attention to those thoughts. And if we just even just a few moments a day kind of go, well, I wonder what else is possible. Well, what if it's what if it can be this instead of that? Instead of making statements, starting to have questions, even just a few moments a day, kind of go, well, I wonder what else is possible.

These kids read minds. They're paying attention to those thoughts. And if we just even just a few moments a day kind of go, well, I wonder what else is possible. Well, what if it's what if it can be this instead of that? Instead of making statements, starting to have questions, even just a few moments a day, kind of go, well, I wonder what else is possible.

That starts to loosen up the energy a little bit. It starts to loosen up what we're broadcasting. And the kids feel it immediately. So we can write that list of all of those words that we use to describe these kids and then flip it over and write the list that you wish you could use. What are those words that you would really like to be able to say? Oh, he's so joyful. He's so excited.

That starts to loosen up the energy a little bit. It starts to loosen up what we're broadcasting. And the kids feel it immediately. So we can write that list of all of those words that we use to describe these kids and then flip it over and write the list that you wish you could use. What are those words that you would really like to be able to say? Oh, he's so joyful. He's so excited.

He's learning so well, whatever those things are. And just read it. Wake up in the morning and read it. It just resets the expectation for the day. And it's really amazing what can happen when just that subtle change is made.

He's learning so well, whatever those things are. And just read it. Wake up in the morning and read it. It just resets the expectation for the day. And it's really amazing what can happen when just that subtle change is made.