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Tabitha Brown

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
200 total appearances

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The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Again, being able to question myself. I know I'm not always right and I will never claim to always be right. And that's one thing that I had to learn by going that, you know what? Just because you're popular, just because people like you doesn't mean you're always right. And I was writing that for a minute and I had to come with the reality that, you know what, dude? No, you're not.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Again, being able to question myself. I know I'm not always right and I will never claim to always be right. And that's one thing that I had to learn by going that, you know what? Just because you're popular, just because people like you doesn't mean you're always right. And I was writing that for a minute and I had to come with the reality that, you know what, dude? No, you're not.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

You're not always right. and uh you know that's a that's a tough one to swallow right there especially when you're selling out arenas and people are laughing at everything you say it's hard to yeah it's hard to uh admit that yeah because when you're doing all these great things like are you kidding you're in magazines you're in the top forbes uh you know uh

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

You're not always right. and uh you know that's a that's a tough one to swallow right there especially when you're selling out arenas and people are laughing at everything you say it's hard to yeah it's hard to uh admit that yeah because when you're doing all these great things like are you kidding you're in magazines you're in the top forbes uh you know uh

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

maker of the year type of thing you're you're selling out stadiums you're doing all kinds of crazy you know you got a freaking car collection that you know that Jay Leno's like wow like you're doing all these amazing things so to be able to to feel like really I'm wrong You know, that's it's hard. It took me a minute to really to get that. But yeah, I admit it all the time now.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

maker of the year type of thing you're you're selling out stadiums you're doing all kinds of crazy you know you got a freaking car collection that you know that Jay Leno's like wow like you're doing all these amazing things so to be able to to feel like really I'm wrong You know, that's it's hard. It took me a minute to really to get that. But yeah, I admit it all the time now.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Yeah, that was stupid. I shouldn't have done that. So, yeah, I definitely feel like that. That was huge. Being able to learn that because I feel like I did need to learn. And nobody would tell me. Really? That's another thing. Once you're at a certain place where the wheels are moving really well and money is good at keeping people, hey, let's keep this going here. Don't nobody tell them anything.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Yeah, that was stupid. I shouldn't have done that. So, yeah, I definitely feel like that. That was huge. Being able to learn that because I feel like I did need to learn. And nobody would tell me. Really? That's another thing. Once you're at a certain place where the wheels are moving really well and money is good at keeping people, hey, let's keep this going here. Don't nobody tell them anything.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Don't ruffle feathers. Don't upset them because if we mess this up, so who's going to tell me I'm wrong? And that's a tough one. I had to figure that one out. Nobody said you're wrong because they're not, none of this, we're not going to mess any of this up. Right. We don't want to stop the money machine coming in right now and everything that's happening.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Don't ruffle feathers. Don't upset them because if we mess this up, so who's going to tell me I'm wrong? And that's a tough one. I had to figure that one out. Nobody said you're wrong because they're not, none of this, we're not going to mess any of this up. Right. We don't want to stop the money machine coming in right now and everything that's happening.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

So, yeah, but, uh, I can be wrong in business. I can be wrong in relationships and I've been wrong in both.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

So, yeah, but, uh, I can be wrong in business. I can be wrong in relationships and I've been wrong in both.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I've made decisions where I'm like, Oh, okay.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I've made decisions where I'm like, Oh, okay.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Start eating better, start working out, and start enjoying the fruits of your labor. Wow. Stop saving all that money for who? Start enjoying life. Start taking some breaks. Start taking some trips. Start having some fun. What's it going to take for you to do those things?

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Start eating better, start working out, and start enjoying the fruits of your labor. Wow. Stop saving all that money for who? Start enjoying life. Start taking some breaks. Start taking some trips. Start having some fun. What's it going to take for you to do those things?

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

What's it going to take? I don't know what it's going to take, but I'm saying it out loud, and that's not something I've done before. Really? I've not said this out loud, back to back to back. So if it does happen, then consider this the first step, the saying it out loud. That's great. Because I've acknowledged publicly this is the issue.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

What's it going to take? I don't know what it's going to take, but I'm saying it out loud, and that's not something I've done before. Really? I've not said this out loud, back to back to back. So if it does happen, then consider this the first step, the saying it out loud. That's great. Because I've acknowledged publicly this is the issue.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

If they like what I do and I bring joy to their lives, Tell somebody. Let people know, hey, I'm only doing this because people still come to the shows. If people stop coming, then I stop doing this. So as long as people come out to the shows, that's going to keep me going. I got to a place where you want to talk about not feeling good, not feeling positive about what I was doing.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

If they like what I do and I bring joy to their lives, Tell somebody. Let people know, hey, I'm only doing this because people still come to the shows. If people stop coming, then I stop doing this. So as long as people come out to the shows, that's going to keep me going. I got to a place where you want to talk about not feeling good, not feeling positive about what I was doing.