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Tabitha Brown

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The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I talked about retiring. I talked about retiring because I wasn't sure that this was giving me what I needed. I wasn't feeling good. And it wasn't the stage that was hurting me. It was how I was feeling in just my everyday life. And I felt like a lot of it was coming from that. And it wasn't. It was just me not dealing with certain issues in my life. And I'm like, you know...

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I talked about retiring. I talked about retiring because I wasn't sure that this was giving me what I needed. I wasn't feeling good. And it wasn't the stage that was hurting me. It was how I was feeling in just my everyday life. And I felt like a lot of it was coming from that. And it wasn't. It was just me not dealing with certain issues in my life. And I'm like, you know...

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

What am I doing this for? I'm still on the road. It's been so many years. And I was reminded by my publicist yesterday. He goes, you know what? You kind of brought up the retirement thing a couple of times. Oh, yeah, you're right. I did. I did. I did. I said that because, you know, at this point, I'm like, what am I supposed to do?

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

What am I doing this for? I'm still on the road. It's been so many years. And I was reminded by my publicist yesterday. He goes, you know what? You kind of brought up the retirement thing a couple of times. Oh, yeah, you're right. I did. I did. I did. I said that because, you know, at this point, I'm like, what am I supposed to do?

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

But I think that I'm clearly missing the fact that I do have a more of an impact than I thought I did. on people's lives and it helps more than it hurts. And I should continue to do this as long as I can. And so the best way people could support me, just keep coming out. There you go. Like, your prices are too expensive. Everybody else got more expensive tickets. Look online.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

But I think that I'm clearly missing the fact that I do have a more of an impact than I thought I did. on people's lives and it helps more than it hurts. And I should continue to do this as long as I can. And so the best way people could support me, just keep coming out. There you go. Like, your prices are too expensive. Everybody else got more expensive tickets. Look online.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Yeah, well, especially right after Dodger Stadium because that put me in a different place mentally because it's not every day you can say that you saw your peak.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Yeah, well, especially right after Dodger Stadium because that put me in a different place mentally because it's not every day you can say that you saw your peak.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

you know and it's hard to argue that one because it's like uh okay this is the biggest it's the biggest show that's ever happened and on the west coast that i know of wow i don't know of any other show that's been that big for comedy how many people were there uh almost 50 000. holy cow yeah so you know uh so how do you set a new goal interesting you know what i mean it's like okay what am i supposed to do now you're on the other side of that and it's like oh

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

you know and it's hard to argue that one because it's like uh okay this is the biggest it's the biggest show that's ever happened and on the west coast that i know of wow i don't know of any other show that's been that big for comedy how many people were there uh almost 50 000. holy cow yeah so you know uh so how do you set a new goal interesting you know what i mean it's like okay what am i supposed to do now you're on the other side of that and it's like oh

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

You know, you freaking jumped the shark, man. You're, you know. So, like, in a perfect world, like, if it was a movie, I looked at it like a movie, like, the best way would be to finish that night and thank you. Here's the end of the career. Wow. You know, and it was literally, I want to say... like three weeks after my 25th anniversary of being a comic. Holy cow. So I like numbers like that.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

You know, you freaking jumped the shark, man. You're, you know. So, like, in a perfect world, like, if it was a movie, I looked at it like a movie, like, the best way would be to finish that night and thank you. Here's the end of the career. Wow. You know, and it was literally, I want to say... like three weeks after my 25th anniversary of being a comic. Holy cow. So I like numbers like that.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Oh, after 25 years, like this is how biggest show ever done, but I still love it. But at the same time, again, you know, Dealing, having certain situations in life and then trying to do this. That night, everything just fell into place. It felt so good. Best night of my life. Hands down, best night of my life. But then the next day, it's like, all right, now we're back to reality. Really? Yeah.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Oh, after 25 years, like this is how biggest show ever done, but I still love it. But at the same time, again, you know, Dealing, having certain situations in life and then trying to do this. That night, everything just fell into place. It felt so good. Best night of my life. Hands down, best night of my life. But then the next day, it's like, all right, now we're back to reality. Really? Yeah.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Did you kind of have like a hangover, emotional hangover? I had an emotional and a physical one because I drank on stage that night. So I killed a bottle in front of... And what I thought was really cool was that everybody... Well, I didn't see anybody leave, but it felt like even after my show was over, I stayed on stage and I just started telling random stories.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Did you kind of have like a hangover, emotional hangover? I had an emotional and a physical one because I drank on stage that night. So I killed a bottle in front of... And what I thought was really cool was that everybody... Well, I didn't see anybody leave, but it felt like even after my show was over, I stayed on stage and I just started telling random stories.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I brought my friends out on stage and we're drinking and they're playing music. I had them playing Vicente Fernandez over and over and we're taking shots and just drinking and... Oh, God. I want to say that it was almost $200,000 for the fine for going over. Oh, yeah. When you rent out a stadium, you got to be out. Yeah, you got it. There's a cutoff time. We went way past that.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I brought my friends out on stage and we're drinking and they're playing music. I had them playing Vicente Fernandez over and over and we're taking shots and just drinking and... Oh, God. I want to say that it was almost $200,000 for the fine for going over. Oh, yeah. When you rent out a stadium, you got to be out. Yeah, you got it. There's a cutoff time. We went way past that.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And so, yeah, I got fined. Best fine I've ever paid.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And so, yeah, I got fined. Best fine I've ever paid.