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Tabitha Brown

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The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

But I think that it's part of the deal. You have to sacrifice.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

But I think that it's part of the deal. You have to sacrifice.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

They're pretty much like this. But Gabriel does have bad days.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

They're pretty much like this. But Gabriel does have bad days.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

He's not supposed to. And if I do, I try to find a way to push it into the show. Like, for example, in my show right now, without giving too much away because I have a new special coming out, one of the things I'm talking about is I'm talking about things that happened to me that weren't great, weren't fun, weren't awesome. I'm starting to incorporate more

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

He's not supposed to. And if I do, I try to find a way to push it into the show. Like, for example, in my show right now, without giving too much away because I have a new special coming out, one of the things I'm talking about is I'm talking about things that happened to me that weren't great, weren't fun, weren't awesome. I'm starting to incorporate more

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

of after so many years and now I'm almost, I'm coming up on 50 pretty soon. There's more things that have happened. For example, I'm talking about the fact that I almost died in a plane crash that made the news. I'm talking about the fact that they broke into my house. Someone broke into my house and went through my things and just a bad situation.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

of after so many years and now I'm almost, I'm coming up on 50 pretty soon. There's more things that have happened. For example, I'm talking about the fact that I almost died in a plane crash that made the news. I'm talking about the fact that they broke into my house. Someone broke into my house and went through my things and just a bad situation.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I'm talking about that I reunited with my father who I haven't seen in 15 years and how awkward that was. And so there's now moments where I'm like, okay, So it's not all like, hey, rainbows and unicorns type of thing. It's like, okay. So the challenge now is making those situations funny. Near death, how can you make that funny? That's a challenge.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I'm talking about that I reunited with my father who I haven't seen in 15 years and how awkward that was. And so there's now moments where I'm like, okay, So it's not all like, hey, rainbows and unicorns type of thing. It's like, okay. So the challenge now is making those situations funny. Near death, how can you make that funny? That's a challenge.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

But I am talking more about things that aren't as fun and pleasant. What do you think has been the darkest or most miserable moments you've had? You know, I think that feeling confused is something that definitely is painful. Not knowing, living in a gray area of confusion, not being able to have clarity and understanding, especially in relationships, not knowing where you stand.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

But I am talking more about things that aren't as fun and pleasant. What do you think has been the darkest or most miserable moments you've had? You know, I think that feeling confused is something that definitely is painful. Not knowing, living in a gray area of confusion, not being able to have clarity and understanding, especially in relationships, not knowing where you stand.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And a lot of times, I think we're the ones responsible for that because we allow certain behavior to continue because we're trying to keep certain people in our lives. And unfortunately, some people should not be in our lives. And that is a hard pill to swallow as well because as much as whether it's friends, family, or business acquaintances, some people do not belong in your life.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And a lot of times, I think we're the ones responsible for that because we allow certain behavior to continue because we're trying to keep certain people in our lives. And unfortunately, some people should not be in our lives. And that is a hard pill to swallow as well because as much as whether it's friends, family, or business acquaintances, some people do not belong in your life.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And the sooner you can get them out, the better you're going to be. And unfortunately, there was times when I didn't just have days or months or a year. I've allowed situations to go on for a very long time because I didn't want to be the bad guy to pull the plug. Really?

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And the sooner you can get them out, the better you're going to be. And unfortunately, there was times when I didn't just have days or months or a year. I've allowed situations to go on for a very long time because I didn't want to be the bad guy to pull the plug. Really?

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And so I took on the pain and the frustration and the issues because I didn't want to be the bad person who said, let me hit the stop button. Mm-hmm. because i didn't want to be that person but at the same time i wasn't doing myself any favors by not stopping or correcting certain things that were happening yeah i can relate to that because i've been in

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And so I took on the pain and the frustration and the issues because I didn't want to be the bad person who said, let me hit the stop button. Mm-hmm. because i didn't want to be that person but at the same time i wasn't doing myself any favors by not stopping or correcting certain things that were happening yeah i can relate to that because i've been in

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I'm still learning. And it's it's one of those things where maybe this period of time was was good and helpful and it allowed me. growth and joy and happiness, but then maybe, you know, letting it go this long, just kind of like, like it, it's now it's going down and now it's going in the opposite direction. So I'm still learning and I'm still adjusting.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I'm still learning. And it's it's one of those things where maybe this period of time was was good and helpful and it allowed me. growth and joy and happiness, but then maybe, you know, letting it go this long, just kind of like, like it, it's now it's going down and now it's going in the opposite direction. So I'm still learning and I'm still adjusting.