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Tabitha Brown

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
200 total appearances

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The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

So I always say do one small thing every day towards your dream. Even if you're stuck in the nine to five job or in a relationship that, you know, or business, whatever the case is, that makes you feel like, oh, I don't have time to do something towards me. Right. Which we are worthy of doing something toward ourselves every day. Yes.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

So I always say do one small thing every day towards your dream. Even if you're stuck in the nine to five job or in a relationship that, you know, or business, whatever the case is, that makes you feel like, oh, I don't have time to do something towards me. Right. Which we are worthy of doing something toward ourselves every day. Yes.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

do one small thing, whether it's reading something that can help open up, you know, an idea in your mind to help you get closer to your dream, whether it's watching a movie or a TV show or listening to a podcast that can help inspire or open up something in your mind, something small every day. One little thing.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

do one small thing, whether it's reading something that can help open up, you know, an idea in your mind to help you get closer to your dream, whether it's watching a movie or a TV show or listening to a podcast that can help inspire or open up something in your mind, something small every day. One little thing.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I don't know who put that time frame on us.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I don't know who put that time frame on us.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I learned that I was not ready when I thought I was. I wouldn't have had nothing to show for it, right? I needed to do, as my daddy would say, keep on living. I needed to do more living before it came so that I could, A, know how to pray for it, right? Because a lot of times I used to pray, pray, pray for all these things to happen. Oh God, I want my dreams to come true.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

I learned that I was not ready when I thought I was. I wouldn't have had nothing to show for it, right? I needed to do, as my daddy would say, keep on living. I needed to do more living before it came so that I could, A, know how to pray for it, right? Because a lot of times I used to pray, pray, pray for all these things to happen. Oh God, I want my dreams to come true.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And, you know, I'm fasting, I'm praying on it. But I was never praying, God, when I get it, prepare me to keep it.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And, you know, I'm fasting, I'm praying on it. But I was never praying, God, when I get it, prepare me to keep it.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Oh, absolutely not. I wasn't ready for everything I was going to gain. I also wasn't ready for everything I was going to lose. What did you lose? Friendships, relationships, right? Things that people that I thought I would have in my life forever. And when I started walking in my freedom, they started to disappear. Wow.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Oh, absolutely not. I wasn't ready for everything I was going to gain. I also wasn't ready for everything I was going to lose. What did you lose? Friendships, relationships, right? Things that people that I thought I would have in my life forever. And when I started walking in my freedom, they started to disappear. Wow.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

But God revealed to me, he said, everybody's not ready to walk in their freedom. So being close to you while you're in yours is disturbing their spirit. Oh. And I couldn't allow that to affect me in a way that I know it would have affected me in my 20s or early 30s. Oh my God. But in this 45, I'm all right with it. I love them, but I understand. 45 feeling alive. I would probably feel alive.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

But God revealed to me, he said, everybody's not ready to walk in their freedom. So being close to you while you're in yours is disturbing their spirit. Oh. And I couldn't allow that to affect me in a way that I know it would have affected me in my 20s or early 30s. Oh my God. But in this 45, I'm all right with it. I love them, but I understand. 45 feeling alive. I would probably feel alive.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Everybody can't go. You know, I feel like a lot of times we... We feel bad because we, especially when you love people, I love people. I'm a people lover.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

Everybody can't go. You know, I feel like a lot of times we... We feel bad because we, especially when you love people, I love people. I'm a people lover.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And you always want to turn around and bring them back. And God revealed one day to me, he said, listen, everyone who you need to bring along, you don't have to turn around to get them. He said, because when you turn around, that's when you get distracted from it. You got to keep your eye forward. The moment you do this, you might have just crashed. He said that people were supposed to come.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

And you always want to turn around and bring them back. And God revealed one day to me, he said, listen, everyone who you need to bring along, you don't have to turn around to get them. He said, because when you turn around, that's when you get distracted from it. You got to keep your eye forward. The moment you do this, you might have just crashed. He said that people were supposed to come.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

All you got to do is go like this. You never got to turn around. They right there. They right there. It's just like a hand off a baton. You watch a marathon. They ain't never turning around to reach for it. They just right here. Right. So the ones who are supposed to come with you, you don't have to turn around to go get them.

The School of Greatness
How To Set EFFECTIVE Boundaries Without Sabotaging Your Relationships

All you got to do is go like this. You never got to turn around. They right there. They right there. It's just like a hand off a baton. You watch a marathon. They ain't never turning around to reach for it. They just right here. Right. So the ones who are supposed to come with you, you don't have to turn around to go get them.