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And I've talked to him about that and you know, I've, I've shared, you know, what I'm interested in and whatever. And he said, I'm just not that guy. Like if you want me to do X, Y, Z, like I'm just not into that or that doesn't do anything for me or like, that's cool that you're into it. But like, I just won't ever do that. Like I'm not that guy. Like, you know, role playing does nothing for me.

And I've talked to him about that and you know, I've, I've shared, you know, what I'm interested in and whatever. And he said, I'm just not that guy. Like if you want me to do X, Y, Z, like I'm just not into that or that doesn't do anything for me or like, that's cool that you're into it. But like, I just won't ever do that. Like I'm not that guy. Like, you know, role playing does nothing for me.

And I've talked to him about that and you know, I've, I've shared, you know, what I'm interested in and whatever. And he said, I'm just not that guy. Like if you want me to do X, Y, Z, like I'm just not into that or that doesn't do anything for me or like, that's cool that you're into it. But like, I just won't ever do that. Like I'm not that guy. Like, you know, role playing does nothing for me.

I don't want to pull over on the side of the road and have sex in the car. Like I just, I'm not going to do those things. And so then I just feel like, is there some common ground? On things that we would do together?

I don't want to pull over on the side of the road and have sex in the car. Like I just, I'm not going to do those things. And so then I just feel like, is there some common ground? On things that we would do together?

I don't want to pull over on the side of the road and have sex in the car. Like I just, I'm not going to do those things. And so then I just feel like, is there some common ground? On things that we would do together?

Yeah, he wouldn't want to because he's like, that's not comfortable. Why would I do that? He doesn't even want to have sex. He doesn't want to be intimate downstairs because, again, it's like what if the kids get up to get a drink of water and they hear us or see us or he just doesn't want to have risk at all.

Yeah, he wouldn't want to because he's like, that's not comfortable. Why would I do that? He doesn't even want to have sex. He doesn't want to be intimate downstairs because, again, it's like what if the kids get up to get a drink of water and they hear us or see us or he just doesn't want to have risk at all.

Yeah, he wouldn't want to because he's like, that's not comfortable. Why would I do that? He doesn't even want to have sex. He doesn't want to be intimate downstairs because, again, it's like what if the kids get up to get a drink of water and they hear us or see us or he just doesn't want to have risk at all.

Yeah. And I told him that like, like this is, you're the only person I get to do life with. Like, I don't get to do this with anybody else. I can't seek, you know, what I'm desiring outside of our relationship. And I wouldn't do that. And so it's like, this is it. And so it's like, if he's not willing, not interested, it's kind of like I have to, I guess, mourn that it will just never happen.

Yeah. And I told him that like, like this is, you're the only person I get to do life with. Like, I don't get to do this with anybody else. I can't seek, you know, what I'm desiring outside of our relationship. And I wouldn't do that. And so it's like, this is it. And so it's like, if he's not willing, not interested, it's kind of like I have to, I guess, mourn that it will just never happen.

Yeah. And I told him that like, like this is, you're the only person I get to do life with. Like, I don't get to do this with anybody else. I can't seek, you know, what I'm desiring outside of our relationship. And I wouldn't do that. And so it's like, this is it. And so it's like, if he's not willing, not interested, it's kind of like I have to, I guess, mourn that it will just never happen.

Like, I don't know. I think for him too, sex is deeply uncomfortable to talk about because we both come from a conservative background. And so to even talk about it, especially for me initially, and to be vulnerable, like you said, and to put yourself out there, it's terrifying. And so for him, he's like, man, you're comfortable talking about sex.

Like, I don't know. I think for him too, sex is deeply uncomfortable to talk about because we both come from a conservative background. And so to even talk about it, especially for me initially, and to be vulnerable, like you said, and to put yourself out there, it's terrifying. And so for him, he's like, man, you're comfortable talking about sex.

Like, I don't know. I think for him too, sex is deeply uncomfortable to talk about because we both come from a conservative background. And so to even talk about it, especially for me initially, and to be vulnerable, like you said, and to put yourself out there, it's terrifying. And so for him, he's like, man, you're comfortable talking about sex.

I'm like, not really, but I'm tired of keeping it inside. I need to say something.

I'm like, not really, but I'm tired of keeping it inside. I need to say something.

I'm like, not really, but I'm tired of keeping it inside. I need to say something.

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