Tara

Yeah, I want to rebuild something new for sure.

I've been married for 17 years. 17 years. Do you get kids? Yes, we have two. They're teenagers.

I've been married for 17 years. 17 years. Do you get kids? Yes, we have two. They're teenagers.

I've been married for 17 years. 17 years. Do you get kids? Yes, we have two. They're teenagers.

I guess everything just feels, I guess a lot of people, it just feels very mundane. Like every day is the same. You go to work, you... 10 to your kids, you make dinner and every day is kind of like a repeat. So it's like in the bedroom, we can do whatever we want. We can have fun. It should be playful. We can do anything.

I guess everything just feels, I guess a lot of people, it just feels very mundane. Like every day is the same. You go to work, you... 10 to your kids, you make dinner and every day is kind of like a repeat. So it's like in the bedroom, we can do whatever we want. We can have fun. It should be playful. We can do anything.

I guess everything just feels, I guess a lot of people, it just feels very mundane. Like every day is the same. You go to work, you... 10 to your kids, you make dinner and every day is kind of like a repeat. So it's like in the bedroom, we can do whatever we want. We can have fun. It should be playful. We can do anything.

And it just feels like if that's also mundane and also the same, it's just like, it'd be nice to try something new and feel excitement, I guess.

And it just feels like if that's also mundane and also the same, it's just like, it'd be nice to try something new and feel excitement, I guess.

And it just feels like if that's also mundane and also the same, it's just like, it'd be nice to try something new and feel excitement, I guess.

And I've talked to him about that and you know, I've, I've shared, you know, what I'm interested in and whatever. And he said, I'm just not that guy. Like if you want me to do X, Y, Z, like I'm just not into that or that doesn't do anything for me or like, that's cool that you're into it. But like, I just won't ever do that. Like I'm not that guy. Like, you know, role playing does nothing for me.

And I've talked to him about that and you know, I've, I've shared, you know, what I'm interested in and whatever. And he said, I'm just not that guy. Like if you want me to do X, Y, Z, like I'm just not into that or that doesn't do anything for me or like, that's cool that you're into it. But like, I just won't ever do that. Like I'm not that guy. Like, you know, role playing does nothing for me.

And I've talked to him about that and you know, I've, I've shared, you know, what I'm interested in and whatever. And he said, I'm just not that guy. Like if you want me to do X, Y, Z, like I'm just not into that or that doesn't do anything for me or like, that's cool that you're into it. But like, I just won't ever do that. Like I'm not that guy. Like, you know, role playing does nothing for me.

I don't want to pull over on the side of the road and have sex in the car. Like I just, I'm not going to do those things. And so then I just feel like, is there some common ground? On things that we would do together?

I don't want to pull over on the side of the road and have sex in the car. Like I just, I'm not going to do those things. And so then I just feel like, is there some common ground? On things that we would do together?

I don't want to pull over on the side of the road and have sex in the car. Like I just, I'm not going to do those things. And so then I just feel like, is there some common ground? On things that we would do together?

Yeah, he wouldn't want to because he's like, that's not comfortable. Why would I do that? He doesn't even want to have sex. He doesn't want to be intimate downstairs because, again, it's like what if the kids get up to get a drink of water and they hear us or see us or he just doesn't want to have risk at all.

Yeah, he wouldn't want to because he's like, that's not comfortable. Why would I do that? He doesn't even want to have sex. He doesn't want to be intimate downstairs because, again, it's like what if the kids get up to get a drink of water and they hear us or see us or he just doesn't want to have risk at all.

Yeah, he wouldn't want to because he's like, that's not comfortable. Why would I do that? He doesn't even want to have sex. He doesn't want to be intimate downstairs because, again, it's like what if the kids get up to get a drink of water and they hear us or see us or he just doesn't want to have risk at all.

Yeah. And I told him that like, like this is, you're the only person I get to do life with. Like, I don't get to do this with anybody else. I can't seek, you know, what I'm desiring outside of our relationship. And I wouldn't do that. And so it's like, this is it. And so it's like, if he's not willing, not interested, it's kind of like I have to, I guess, mourn that it will just never happen.