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Yeah. And I told him that like, like this is, you're the only person I get to do life with. Like, I don't get to do this with anybody else. I can't seek, you know, what I'm desiring outside of our relationship. And I wouldn't do that. And so it's like, this is it. And so it's like, if he's not willing, not interested, it's kind of like I have to, I guess, mourn that it will just never happen.

Yeah. And I told him that like, like this is, you're the only person I get to do life with. Like, I don't get to do this with anybody else. I can't seek, you know, what I'm desiring outside of our relationship. And I wouldn't do that. And so it's like, this is it. And so it's like, if he's not willing, not interested, it's kind of like I have to, I guess, mourn that it will just never happen.

Like, I don't know. I think for him too, sex is deeply uncomfortable to talk about because we both come from a conservative background. And so to even talk about it, especially for me initially, and to be vulnerable, like you said, and to put yourself out there, it's terrifying. And so for him, he's like, man, you're comfortable talking about sex.

Like, I don't know. I think for him too, sex is deeply uncomfortable to talk about because we both come from a conservative background. And so to even talk about it, especially for me initially, and to be vulnerable, like you said, and to put yourself out there, it's terrifying. And so for him, he's like, man, you're comfortable talking about sex.

Like, I don't know. I think for him too, sex is deeply uncomfortable to talk about because we both come from a conservative background. And so to even talk about it, especially for me initially, and to be vulnerable, like you said, and to put yourself out there, it's terrifying. And so for him, he's like, man, you're comfortable talking about sex.

I'm like, not really, but I'm tired of keeping it inside. I need to say something.

I'm like, not really, but I'm tired of keeping it inside. I need to say something.

I'm like, not really, but I'm tired of keeping it inside. I need to say something.

Right. Right.

Right. Right.

Right. Right.

Right. That's his, I guess that's his thing is if we're talking about something hard, whether it's sex or whatever it is, he just kind of shuts down or disengages or whatever. just kind of leaves the room. Whereas I'm the person who's like, let's talk about this now. Let's dive into it. Let's fix this. Let's repair. And he's very much the avoidance.

Right. That's his, I guess that's his thing is if we're talking about something hard, whether it's sex or whatever it is, he just kind of shuts down or disengages or whatever. just kind of leaves the room. Whereas I'm the person who's like, let's talk about this now. Let's dive into it. Let's fix this. Let's repair. And he's very much the avoidance.

Right. That's his, I guess that's his thing is if we're talking about something hard, whether it's sex or whatever it is, he just kind of shuts down or disengages or whatever. just kind of leaves the room. Whereas I'm the person who's like, let's talk about this now. Let's dive into it. Let's fix this. Let's repair. And he's very much the avoidance.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

where I could do billing from home. So I do insurance billing and I run co-pays and things like that. My husband is a licensed therapist and just this year he became independently licensed. So he started his own private practice where he sees patients on Saturdays. And so he works at his 40 hour a week job and then Saturdays he sees his patients.

where I could do billing from home. So I do insurance billing and I run co-pays and things like that. My husband is a licensed therapist and just this year he became independently licensed. So he started his own private practice where he sees patients on Saturdays. And so he works at his 40 hour a week job and then Saturdays he sees his patients.

where I could do billing from home. So I do insurance billing and I run co-pays and things like that. My husband is a licensed therapist and just this year he became independently licensed. So he started his own private practice where he sees patients on Saturdays. And so he works at his 40 hour a week job and then Saturdays he sees his patients.