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She likes certain options a lot more than the others.

And that is now a really fun thing to parent into.

How do we let Bubba find what she likes most?

Yeah.

But I feel like now, like I feel like before she was probably choosing more by chance.

Whereas now it's like a lot more intentional.

She's happier in the boots than not in the boots.

She like carries them around the house.

And this – Cavendish, they had a full wall of like kids and baby boots.

So there's no shortage of options.

And she kept going back.

And one thing I didn't put in the video, she probably took three or four sets of those boots, of the same boots, and put them out.

So this is a situation where she has me on half of it, but not the other half.

So the half that she has me on is like, yes, when you tell your kid you're going to do something, then you should do it.

Where she loses me is...

throwing an iPad out a window is a very aggressive move.

So saying, hey, you're gonna lose iPad privileges and I'm gonna go donate it to the homeless shelter, that, to me, feels very appropriate.

Versus throwing it out the window, that feels rooted in anger and aggressiveness and that feels off.

Well, the problem is I think... You don't calmly throw something out the window.

Like, you throw something out the window when you're pissed.