Teri Hatcher

oh, I mean, you're just not, you're not going to spas or dinner with your friends or... You're just grinding it out.

You know, you are kind of, and so it really isn't until it's over that you get an opportunity to reflect back at what an amazing opportunity it was.

It's more like when you're in it, it's hard to not get caught up in what feels hard about it.

It's not that you're not grateful.

Like, I feel like I'm always grateful, but it is...

I mean, it's not unlike being the mother of a young kid when you're just, you know, obviously you're so thrilled to have a child, but then also you're not sleeping and you're not, you know, whatever.

It's hard to put both of those things together and have it all feel positive all the time.

Leads to frustration.

I didn't remember that she did.

And you also don't know what's – it was interesting.

I just saw Jane Fonda talking on a podcast yesterday and she referenced that in the first season of the show that she did with Lily Tomlin recently.

That it was horrible for her.

These are her words.

And she said she realized in hindsight because the subject matter was kind of like pushing very deep buttons for her about being abandoned.

Oh, I see.

And she had to go work on that and then was able to approach the second season and then it was like all great after that.

But it made me think, you just don't know what's going on.

And we're so quick to judge and label and...

I don't know.

You just don't know.