Thais Gibson

That's honestly what our relationship baggage is.

And those are all things that interfere the most in our relationships.

Oh, I felt abandoned as a child.

Okay, I project that as an adult.

Oh, I felt not good enough as a child.

That's what I bring into my relationships as an adult.

But those are solvable problems.

Thank you so much for having me.

You're lovely and I'm just, I'm really excited to chat with you.

I think the biggest thing, and to your point, like I love that everybody, I've been studying this work for a long time and in this field for a long time.

And when attachment styles started becoming more mainstream, I was so excited.

And then over time, I started thinking like, wait, it's almost becoming to the point where people are just identifying with it almost as a label going, oh, I just am this attachment style rather than being in a position of going, wait, I have to heal this.

Like,

Let me understand this.

This temporary label gives me context into the things within me that may need a little bit more love or healing or support.

But the actual work is being able to say, OK, here are my patterns.

Where do they come from?

And then actually rewiring them at the subconscious level.

And that's what I definitely hope the key takeaway is for today.

Yeah.