Thais Gibson

So earlier when I was saying there was the original attachment theory, it was like these are the attachment cells, but it kind of just talked about their temperaments and some of the themes in their childhood and how they behave.

I had already been doing this work with like the core wounds and the needs and the nervous system frameworks with people and how people communicate and how they behave.

And I was specifically in the body of work for the first few years I was working with people just helping people like rewire their painful patterns.

And a lot of it was from their childhood conditioning, but I hadn't ever put it into the theme of like attachment styles.

And then when I, you know, met my husband and we started getting more serious and I was like, ooh, I still have a little, like, relationship work to do.

I've done a lot of work to be really peaceful within myself, but I had a little relationship work to do with him.

And I kind of felt like he also had some work to do with me.

And I revisited more about learning about relationships.

And the first thing I went back to was, like, oh, attachment cells.

And I was like, oh, my goodness.

Once I know somebody's attachment cell, every attachment cell has these core wounds and these patterns with their needs and these patterns with their nervous system, communication behaviors.

And so...

What we ended up creating is this whole body of work that you can actually rewire each of those things at the subconscious level because your subconscious mind is literally driving your life.

And so it's like all of the conditioning that we've picked up from past experiences in our own personal warehouse, how do we start to recondition and we really boil it into those five pillars.

So the first pillar, and this is like, I love that you said, it's not just about self-love.

Because sometimes, I don't know, sometimes you hear stuff and people say, just forgive people.

And you're like, that would be nice if I felt like that.

How do I emotionally arrive there?

And how do I actually feel that deeply?

And so a lot of the work is how do we actually get to our subconscious mind?