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Thais Gibson

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And so what we do is we're going to come up with 10 memories to support the new idea that we're trying to drive to the subconscious mind.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

So for example, I am good enough.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

10 times I actually felt good enough.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And they do not have to be big.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

It can be things like I was a good friend last week.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

I had a hard conversation with my spouse two weeks ago, whatever it is.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

It can be small things, but we need to just elicit a little bit of emotion, that imagery of the memory, and we need 10 of them.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

Step three, we record ourselves saying it out loud.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

So ideally, we write them down, we record ourselves saying it into our phone, and then our subconscious mind actually sponges up a lot of information more effectively when we are in a suggestible state, meaning our brain is producing more alpha brainwaves.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And so what we get people to do is to sit down.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

They record themselves saying this out loud.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

It takes two minutes to listen back.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And your brain produces a lot more alpha brainwaves after a good meditation.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

The first hour that you wake up before drinking coffee, the last hour before you go to sleep, after intense exercise, breath work, these types of things, you're in more alpha brainwave mode when your mind is more relaxed, more still.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And then what we're doing is we're listening back to those things during that time.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

In your own voice, exactly.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

Saying it out loud, you're listening back and you're very much focusing on the images and the emotion as you feel back in that suggestible state.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And neuroscience research tells us if we are in a suggestible state, doing that for 21 days builds new neural networks that are very strong that they are highly likely to stay.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

And what's really interesting is we surveyed people who did this.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Relationship Expert Thais Gibson: Do You Keep Attracting The Same Emotionally Unavailable Partner? (Use THIS Attachment Reset To Break The Cycle And Choose Better Partners)

We're like, okay, let's actually track how people are doing this.