Thais Gibson

I was like, hey, what happened?

And he was like, oh, I know I should have been working.

I wasn't working.

I was doing this thing instead.

And he was like, looking back real quick.

He moved back really quickly.

And I'm like, oh, like, I don't want you to feel like I'm like,

gonna be worrying about if you like take a moment like I and he's like I know that was silly that I did that like I don't know and I was like yeah like it's cool like if you need to go look at something go look at something and and um and so it's just but it's funny like I was laughing to myself that like here I am implicitly trusting this person all these years later there's like that I just not even thinking about it not trying to think of anything I was deep in my head but my brain just clocks this this

care moving differently.

And it's just there.

The beauty of it is that when you don't, it wears on your nervous system to be like that when it's followed by a jumping to conclusions.

Like when it's followed by, oh my gosh, was he talking to somebody that he, you know, if it went down that rabbit hole, it becomes painful.

And also, and you know, just in all transparency, like,

My husband and I worked all that the first year of dating.

Like, I did jump to conclusions sometimes still.

And I was working through that a little bit still in relationship when we met.

But we learned to talk openly.

And then I had so many positive experiences about that.

I learned him deeply and vice versa.

And, you know, we built way beyond that.