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Thais Gibson

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Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

And then see how that goes.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

So yeah,

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

So what happens is these are subconscious.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

So we have to speak in the language of the subconscious mind, which is emotion and imagery.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

So step one, let's just use the example, I'm not good enough.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

Opposite, I am good enough.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

Step two, I can't just say I'm good enough, I'm good enough, I'm good enough because it doesn't do anything.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

I have to say, I have to speak in emotions and images of how I'm good enough.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

The best way to leverage emotions and images is through recent memories.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

All memories, or really old memories too, all memory is just a container of emotions and images.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

So if you think of like your favorite childhood memory, and let's say you're playing at the beach with your family,

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

You might see the image of the red bucket that you're building a sandcastle with.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

And you might see the images of the ocean and the waves.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

And we've all seen people when they recall old memories, they laugh or they smile.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

Or if it's a sad memory, they cry.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

And it's because memory gets stored subconsciously with the emotions attached.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

So...

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

Now we know that we can speak to our subconscious mind through memory.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

And so now we're going to come up with 10 memories of times that we actually felt good enough or had loyalty.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

Yeah.