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Thais Gibson

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

But in real time, I would struggle.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

And it's because for me as a child, when I set boundaries or said no, I would often get punished.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

So for me...

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

boundaries equaled unsafety.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

And until I rewired that core wound, then in real time, I would be like, oh, this is when I should set a boundary, but I wouldn't do it because my subconscious would block me thinking I would be unsafe.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

So by doing the core wound work first, we get rid of those wounds that would show up and prevent us from setting the boundary.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

Like, oh, I'll be abandoned if I set a boundary or unsafe or unloved.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

When you do that core wound work first, you have the power to set boundaries much more effectively.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

So to your point, exactly all of those pillars are in that exact order for very specific reasons.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

Thank you.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

Thank you so much.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

Yeah.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

And I take people through 90-day programs.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

So I'm in there with people.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

We go through 90 days.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

It's sort of like a boot camp.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

And I give people daily subconscious rewiring activities.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

They take like two to three minutes a day.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

They're super simple and distilled down.

Strictly Anonymous Confessions
1438 - How Your Attachment Style is Subconsciously Ruling Your Love Life w/ Thais Gibson

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