Thais Gibson

But then you said, I forget what you said.

You said something else.

And I was like, oh, the fearful avoidance.

It's so funny.

So funny.

Thank you so much.

This was so fun.

Okay, bye, Kathy.

That's honestly what our relationship baggage is.

And those are all things that interfere the most in our relationships.

Oh, I felt abandoned as a child.

Okay, I project that as an adult.

Oh, I felt not good enough as a child.

That's what I bring into my relationships as an adult.

But those are solvable problems.

Thank you so much for having me.

You're lovely and I'm just, I'm really excited to chat with you.

I think the biggest thing, and to your point, like I love that everybody, I've been studying this work for a long time and in this field for a long time.

And when attachment styles started becoming more mainstream, I was so excited.

And then over time, I started thinking like, wait, it's almost becoming to the point where people are just identifying with it almost as a label going, oh, I just am this attachment style rather than being in a position of going, wait, I have to heal this.