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Appearances Over Time

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the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

Part of that is just realizing, hey, let's say you're bad at reaching out to people, but you're really good at showing up to things. You're really good at being at people's events. You're really good at just calling someone out of the blue and being like, hey, I was doing this thing. I was at TJ Maxx and I saw...

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

Part of that is just realizing, hey, let's say you're bad at reaching out to people, but you're really good at showing up to things. You're really good at being at people's events. You're really good at just calling someone out of the blue and being like, hey, I was doing this thing. I was at TJ Maxx and I saw...

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

You know, I was in the snack aisle because the snack aisle always be having the heavy heaters. But those like growing up, I would beg my mom. I'd be like, Mama, in Polish. And she'd be like, no, no, we are not buying it. We have we have food at home. Meanwhile, food at home was ketchup and mustard. That was food at home and buraki. Shout out the Polish people one time.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

You know, I was in the snack aisle because the snack aisle always be having the heavy heaters. But those like growing up, I would beg my mom. I'd be like, Mama, in Polish. And she'd be like, no, no, we are not buying it. We have we have food at home. Meanwhile, food at home was ketchup and mustard. That was food at home and buraki. Shout out the Polish people one time.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

You know, I was in the snack aisle because the snack aisle always be having the heavy heaters. But those like growing up, I would beg my mom. I'd be like, Mama, in Polish. And she'd be like, no, no, we are not buying it. We have we have food at home. Meanwhile, food at home was ketchup and mustard. That was food at home and buraki. Shout out the Polish people one time.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

anyways like we set the standard of doing things based on like how a lot of people do things or like maybe what's what's the most romantic what's the most whimsical what's the most convenient okay that's great that's awesome but what if we just focused on what is the easiest thing for us to do like if you are someone who struggles with reaching out to people but your strength is you know when events are you know when to pull up to things and you feel like oh like i know you know

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

anyways like we set the standard of doing things based on like how a lot of people do things or like maybe what's what's the most romantic what's the most whimsical what's the most convenient okay that's great that's awesome but what if we just focused on what is the easiest thing for us to do like if you are someone who struggles with reaching out to people but your strength is you know when events are you know when to pull up to things and you feel like oh like i know you know

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

anyways like we set the standard of doing things based on like how a lot of people do things or like maybe what's what's the most romantic what's the most whimsical what's the most convenient okay that's great that's awesome but what if we just focused on what is the easiest thing for us to do like if you are someone who struggles with reaching out to people but your strength is you know when events are you know when to pull up to things and you feel like oh like i know you know

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

I know when to call someone out of the blue. I really have a good sense about that. Then do more of that. Do more of that. That will attract people who respect your way of communicating. I'm somebody who, oh my goodness, I'm bad at responding, which everyone is bad at responding. We respond to people who we want to respond to, but I always pick up a phone call. That's my rule.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

I know when to call someone out of the blue. I really have a good sense about that. Then do more of that. Do more of that. That will attract people who respect your way of communicating. I'm somebody who, oh my goodness, I'm bad at responding, which everyone is bad at responding. We respond to people who we want to respond to, but I always pick up a phone call. That's my rule.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

I know when to call someone out of the blue. I really have a good sense about that. Then do more of that. Do more of that. That will attract people who respect your way of communicating. I'm somebody who, oh my goodness, I'm bad at responding, which everyone is bad at responding. We respond to people who we want to respond to, but I always pick up a phone call. That's my rule.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

So if somebody calls me, I pick up. Famously, John Pork was calling, picked up. So it's the same kind of energy you have to, I think, give yourself grace and the things that you might not feel the best at and just be like, okay, I'm just going to, I'm going to focus on doing this my way.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

So if somebody calls me, I pick up. Famously, John Pork was calling, picked up. So it's the same kind of energy you have to, I think, give yourself grace and the things that you might not feel the best at and just be like, okay, I'm just going to, I'm going to focus on doing this my way.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

So if somebody calls me, I pick up. Famously, John Pork was calling, picked up. So it's the same kind of energy you have to, I think, give yourself grace and the things that you might not feel the best at and just be like, okay, I'm just going to, I'm going to focus on doing this my way.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

I'm going to focus on figuring out how can I, how I can function in like my own strengths and like, how can I do this? That might be, you know, it might feel like I'm doing too much and it If I actually do it in this way, I feel totally in control of things. It is so easy to kind of close yourself in as a person.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

I'm going to focus on figuring out how can I, how I can function in like my own strengths and like, how can I do this? That might be, you know, it might feel like I'm doing too much and it If I actually do it in this way, I feel totally in control of things. It is so easy to kind of close yourself in as a person.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

I'm going to focus on figuring out how can I, how I can function in like my own strengths and like, how can I do this? That might be, you know, it might feel like I'm doing too much and it If I actually do it in this way, I feel totally in control of things. It is so easy to kind of close yourself in as a person.

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

And when you see other people doing something and they'd say, oh, that's, I mean, that is the productive way of doing things. You immediately think, well, okay, I want to be somebody who's productive, which means that I need to mimic that behavior. I need to do that. And maybe the behavior is one that you can mimic. It's one that you can

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

And when you see other people doing something and they'd say, oh, that's, I mean, that is the productive way of doing things. You immediately think, well, okay, I want to be somebody who's productive, which means that I need to mimic that behavior. I need to do that. And maybe the behavior is one that you can mimic. It's one that you can

the zurkie show
why you're so worn out (and how to fix it)

And when you see other people doing something and they'd say, oh, that's, I mean, that is the productive way of doing things. You immediately think, well, okay, I want to be somebody who's productive, which means that I need to mimic that behavior. I need to do that. And maybe the behavior is one that you can mimic. It's one that you can