Tiffany Aliche

So we're not here to fight against your humanness. You know, I'm like for budgeting, for example, I do this thing where I call it budget without a budget. You go to HR, you say, hey, HR or payroll, I want to split my money before I get my money.

So we're not here to fight against your humanness. You know, I'm like for budgeting, for example, I do this thing where I call it budget without a budget. You go to HR, you say, hey, HR or payroll, I want to split my money before I get my money.

So we're not here to fight against your humanness. You know, I'm like for budgeting, for example, I do this thing where I call it budget without a budget. You go to HR, you say, hey, HR or payroll, I want to split my money before I get my money.

Do you have a particular percentage in mind? Well, the good thing is people ask me that all the time. I'm like, well, we don't have to guess. Money list is right there saying, oh, hello. We know how much you need to put in here.

Do you have a particular percentage in mind? Well, the good thing is people ask me that all the time. I'm like, well, we don't have to guess. Money list is right there saying, oh, hello. We know how much you need to put in here.

Do you have a particular percentage in mind? Well, the good thing is people ask me that all the time. I'm like, well, we don't have to guess. Money list is right there saying, oh, hello. We know how much you need to put in here.

And I did not see this coming. Well, I don't know if you know this Mel, but two and a half years ago, my husband passed away suddenly. I did not know that. From an aneurysm. That sucks. And so one thing I learned from that, aside from the financial component, which is that we did, I wanna say 85 to 90% of the things right. So I get to just miss him.

And I did not see this coming. Well, I don't know if you know this Mel, but two and a half years ago, my husband passed away suddenly. I did not know that. From an aneurysm. That sucks. And so one thing I learned from that, aside from the financial component, which is that we did, I wanna say 85 to 90% of the things right. So I get to just miss him.

And I did not see this coming. Well, I don't know if you know this Mel, but two and a half years ago, my husband passed away suddenly. I did not know that. From an aneurysm. That sucks. And so one thing I learned from that, aside from the financial component, which is that we did, I wanna say 85 to 90% of the things right. So I get to just miss him.

There's not the financial ruin that so many, so many women lose their, partner and their home. That has not been the case for me. But what I did, what my therapist calls the gift of grief is that it gave me perspective of what's really important. You know, like that all of this that you're learning today is not for money's sake. is for meaning's sake.

There's not the financial ruin that so many, so many women lose their, partner and their home. That has not been the case for me. But what I did, what my therapist calls the gift of grief is that it gave me perspective of what's really important. You know, like that all of this that you're learning today is not for money's sake. is for meaning's sake.

There's not the financial ruin that so many, so many women lose their, partner and their home. That has not been the case for me. But what I did, what my therapist calls the gift of grief is that it gave me perspective of what's really important. You know, like that all of this that you're learning today is not for money's sake. is for meaning's sake.

I hope you remember to put that first and center that. What is the real thing that you're wanting? To what end? Time with family, time with friends, purpose, whatever that is, to center that and to use the money to match to it. Because you might already have enough. I didn't know I had enough. I was like the driver, like, oh babe, we could do this. And he'd be like, well, I like our house.

I hope you remember to put that first and center that. What is the real thing that you're wanting? To what end? Time with family, time with friends, purpose, whatever that is, to center that and to use the money to match to it. Because you might already have enough. I didn't know I had enough. I was like the driver, like, oh babe, we could do this. And he'd be like, well, I like our house.

I hope you remember to put that first and center that. What is the real thing that you're wanting? To what end? Time with family, time with friends, purpose, whatever that is, to center that and to use the money to match to it. Because you might already have enough. I didn't know I had enough. I was like the driver, like, oh babe, we could do this. And he'd be like, well, I like our house.

Oh, we could get this car if I work even harder. And he's like, well, the car's paid off. I like our car. His thing was always, because I have a stepdaughter, Alyssa, he would always be like, well, if Alyssa's good and you're good, I'm good. And it took for him passing away to make me realize that it's enough. I have enough. I spend way more time with family and friends now.

Oh, we could get this car if I work even harder. And he's like, well, the car's paid off. I like our car. His thing was always, because I have a stepdaughter, Alyssa, he would always be like, well, if Alyssa's good and you're good, I'm good. And it took for him passing away to make me realize that it's enough. I have enough. I spend way more time with family and friends now.

Oh, we could get this car if I work even harder. And he's like, well, the car's paid off. I like our car. His thing was always, because I have a stepdaughter, Alyssa, he would always be like, well, if Alyssa's good and you're good, I'm good. And it took for him passing away to make me realize that it's enough. I have enough. I spend way more time with family and friends now.

So all that I work toward is to just bring back to center, to enough. I don't need to collect any more... You know, I'm so happy my book made the New York Times bestsellers list. But honestly, like, what does that even mean? You know, we're here for a flash in the pan. And how will you spend that time? And I hope you spend it like on the things that mean the most. Connectedness, love, purpose.

So all that I work toward is to just bring back to center, to enough. I don't need to collect any more... You know, I'm so happy my book made the New York Times bestsellers list. But honestly, like, what does that even mean? You know, we're here for a flash in the pan. And how will you spend that time? And I hope you spend it like on the things that mean the most. Connectedness, love, purpose.