Tim Ferriss

and I'm not the first person to come up with this, but reality minus expectations, it's like, well, you can work on both of those, right?

What do you expect?

What do you feel entitled to versus your reality?

And you can work on either side.

if that is in fact.

Do you think entitlement is the same as high expectations?

They're not the same.

They're not the same.

I would say that entitlement is a perverted type of high expectations.

in excess.

So there's... there are kind of different windows through which you can look at high expectations.

I have high expectations.

Look, if, like, someone's working on my team, if I'm working with someone, if I'm in a relationship, like, I have high expectations of myself, and I have high expectations of

pretty much everyone around me.

In terms of, let's just call it the professional context, like certain core tenets, commitment to excellence, shipping and meeting deadlines, right?

Certain things that are non-negotiable.

when you feel like you should have A, B, and C. I deserve D, E, and F. I think that's where you get into murkier waters.

But then if you look at, like, a Costa Rica, right, which was also in the report that I looked at, top three...

What do they have?

Very rich social environments, right?