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Todd Davis

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1035 total appearances

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Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

Much like a financial bank account, in our emotional bank account, we make deposits and we take withdrawals. But unlike a financial bank account, We should never be making deposits in the emotional bank account of others with the intent of taking it all.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

Much like a financial bank account, in our emotional bank account, we make deposits and we take withdrawals. But unlike a financial bank account, We should never be making deposits in the emotional bank account of others with the intent of taking it all.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

Much like a financial bank account, in our emotional bank account, we make deposits and we take withdrawals. But unlike a financial bank account, We should never be making deposits in the emotional bank account of others with the intent of taking it all.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

I had this experience I wrote about in one of the books you cited where this long lost friend I hadn't talked to him for I can't remember how many years. And he called out of the blue. It was so awesome. We've been such great friends. And he was talking for like 45 minutes. And we're just connecting. We ought to go to lunch. And towards the very end of the conversation, he said.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

I had this experience I wrote about in one of the books you cited where this long lost friend I hadn't talked to him for I can't remember how many years. And he called out of the blue. It was so awesome. We've been such great friends. And he was talking for like 45 minutes. And we're just connecting. We ought to go to lunch. And towards the very end of the conversation, he said.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

I had this experience I wrote about in one of the books you cited where this long lost friend I hadn't talked to him for I can't remember how many years. And he called out of the blue. It was so awesome. We've been such great friends. And he was talking for like 45 minutes. And we're just connecting. We ought to go to lunch. And towards the very end of the conversation, he said.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

Hey, oh, by the way, do you guys still get discount tickets to that ski thing? And it was so funny, Heather, because I thought you took 45 minutes. I would have been okay if you'd called and said, hey, Todd, I feel so bad we haven't connected for years, and I'd love to do that. I wanted to find out if you still get discount tickets, and I also want to set up lunch, but instead we did this dance.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

Hey, oh, by the way, do you guys still get discount tickets to that ski thing? And it was so funny, Heather, because I thought you took 45 minutes. I would have been okay if you'd called and said, hey, Todd, I feel so bad we haven't connected for years, and I'd love to do that. I wanted to find out if you still get discount tickets, and I also want to set up lunch, but instead we did this dance.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

Hey, oh, by the way, do you guys still get discount tickets to that ski thing? And it was so funny, Heather, because I thought you took 45 minutes. I would have been okay if you'd called and said, hey, Todd, I feel so bad we haven't connected for years, and I'd love to do that. I wanted to find out if you still get discount tickets, and I also want to set up lunch, but instead we did this dance.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

So that would be an example of making not a very sincere deposit emotional account with the intent of taking a withdrawal. In the course, we do this activity that's really powerful.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

So that would be an example of making not a very sincere deposit emotional account with the intent of taking a withdrawal. In the course, we do this activity that's really powerful.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

So that would be an example of making not a very sincere deposit emotional account with the intent of taking a withdrawal. In the course, we do this activity that's really powerful.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

You think about an important relationship in your life, professional or personal, and then you go through on this document and you document the last five interactions you had with that person, whatever it was, the last five interactions. You've got to really think about it, and then you've got to think about how you think that person felt. Well, for mine, I picked my spouse.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

You think about an important relationship in your life, professional or personal, and then you go through on this document and you document the last five interactions you had with that person, whatever it was, the last five interactions. You've got to really think about it, and then you've got to think about how you think that person felt. Well, for mine, I picked my spouse.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

You think about an important relationship in your life, professional or personal, and then you go through on this document and you document the last five interactions you had with that person, whatever it was, the last five interactions. You've got to really think about it, and then you've got to think about how you think that person felt. Well, for mine, I picked my spouse.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

Many people pick professional relationships. I picked my spouse because I had been traveling a lot. I'd been gone a lot. And the last five interactions were like quick phone call, quick goodbye. And how did she feel? Dismissed, rushed, whatever. And boy, you look at that.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

Many people pick professional relationships. I picked my spouse because I had been traveling a lot. I'd been gone a lot. And the last five interactions were like quick phone call, quick goodbye. And how did she feel? Dismissed, rushed, whatever. And boy, you look at that.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

Many people pick professional relationships. I picked my spouse because I had been traveling a lot. I'd been gone a lot. And the last five interactions were like quick phone call, quick goodbye. And how did she feel? Dismissed, rushed, whatever. And boy, you look at that.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

And then we ask the question, this important relationship, what if we were to multiply those last five interactions, say 50 times or 500 times, what would be the impact of

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
#485: Habits That MAKE or BREAK Your Career with Todd Davis, Author, Senior Leadership Consultant, & 7 Habits Content Expert

And then we ask the question, this important relationship, what if we were to multiply those last five interactions, say 50 times or 500 times, what would be the impact of