Tom Papa

Yeah, the binder.

It's like, this should be like a PDF.

Like, why is there should be a why?

Why did you give that to me 10 years ago?

And where is it?

I don't even I don't know if my second child is on it.

Here's the other one, though, is OK, you've got to do that like official thing.

OK, we know where everything's going and who's going to take care of the kids when they're little and blah, blah, blah.

But there's all these other uncomfortable conversations you should be having, which I know my wife and I haven't had, which is, OK, so if you die, what do you want us to do?

Do you want to be scattered somewhere?

Do you want to go back to New Jersey?

Do you want to be what?

Like, we haven't discussed that at all.

Oh, you got to have that conversation.

I know.

Otherwise, you're just putting it on the other person.

And, you know, when you're in a relationship for a long time, you love that person and you don't really support all their decisions.

I can see my wife coming up with a horrible idea.

So I...

And do you have to write that down or can I just tell her?