Tony Robbins

is what the voice note says i'm calling it this crazy hours i found out that you're interviewing a dear friend of mine gavin de becker i think in two days i think on the 13th he is an extraordinary human being extraordinary soul he comes from a very tough background but what he's done to move from that background to becoming probably the single greatest security expert in the world he designed the systems that are used to protect the supreme court i've met him

decades ago when there was a threat happening to a former girlfriend of mine and then i was getting threatening letters and he deciphered the letters in microseconds got the fbi involved and put a stop to it all it was extraordinary what he did

This is not being disrespectful.

I hope you can feel my state.

Yeah.

You're not a man until you're about 40, just so you know.

Our daughter has two moms.

She has her mom carried her.

She's got her mom here that comes from her.

She's got me.

We have this unique family.

Today on Unplanned, we sat down with the self-help legend,

Love is the answer, brother.

I know what I have and I'm not about to mess that up.

I think part of it is we're devoted to each other, but we also have a mission that we're devoted to.

And I think it's important to have something, you know, devotion is different than just love.

Devotion is like your needs are my needs, not I'm gonna meet your needs, trying to make you happy or until you're not.

We're both completely devoted to each other and devoted to our family, but we also have a mission to serve as many human beings.

And one of the beautiful things when Sage came into my life is I felt like I wasn't the only person that had that sense of caring and drive.

And we both bring different qualities together and complement each other.