Tori Dunlap

The biggest question, which is very flattering, that I get asked other than a financial question is like, how are you so confident?

Or like, how do you build your own confidence?

I believe myself worthy of every opportunity, of every piece of love and belonging.

When I walk into a date, it is not, oh my God, is this person going to like me?

It is, how does this person fit in with my life?

I'm not worried about how I'm presenting myself.

I'm just trying to figure out, is this person worthy of me?

Is this relationship worthy of my time?

When I walk into a meeting with a client, I am wondering, how is this person going to see the value and the worth that I offer?

And if they're not, it's not of interest to me.

So in terms of building confidence, financial confidence, career confidence, relationship confidence, it is a self-worthiness issue.

If you believe you're self-worthy of love and opportunity and belonging and of every good thing, you will not be shocked when all of that starts happening in your life.

I have never once questioned if I'm worthy of those things.

I joke when I walk into a new therapist's office, there are many other things we're going to have to talk about, but worthiness is not one of them.

So when you believe you're self-worthy of those opportunities, you will show up differently in every aspect of your life.

I grew up with parents who educated me about money and I thought that was the case for everybody. I thought, okay, everybody knows not to overspend on credit cards. Everybody knows how to save. Everybody knows how to manage money responsibly. And as I got older, graduated high school, went into college and started having more conversations with people, I realized, of course, that wasn't the case.

I grew up with parents who educated me about money and I thought that was the case for everybody. I thought, okay, everybody knows not to overspend on credit cards. Everybody knows how to save. Everybody knows how to manage money responsibly. And as I got older, graduated high school, went into college and started having more conversations with people, I realized, of course, that wasn't the case.

I grew up with parents who educated me about money and I thought that was the case for everybody. I thought, okay, everybody knows not to overspend on credit cards. Everybody knows how to save. Everybody knows how to manage money responsibly. And as I got older, graduated high school, went into college and started having more conversations with people, I realized, of course, that wasn't the case.

I grew up with parents who educated me about money and I thought that was the case for everybody. I thought, okay, everybody knows not to overspend on credit cards. Everybody knows how to save. Everybody knows how to manage money responsibly. And as I got older, graduated high school, went into college and started having more conversations with people, I realized, of course, that wasn't the case.

I grew up with parents who educated me about money and I thought that was the case for everybody. I thought, okay, everybody knows not to overspend on credit cards. Everybody knows how to save. Everybody knows how to manage money responsibly. And as I got older, graduated high school, went into college and started having more conversations with people, I realized, of course, that wasn't the case.