Trevor Noah

You dedicate time to it apart from the thing that you're already good at.

So the more time you dedicate to a hobby, the better it becomes.

And the better you become.

And as soon as you master it, you start another hobby.

Right?

So if you're coloring or making beads, once you're done with this bracelet, you'll start another bracelet.

You never go, this is my ultimate bracelet.

Well, the conundrum is when you are talented, that's the only bracelet that you'll ever make.

Standing on stage, making people laugh, you get better at it, but it's not like you're going to go become a famous welder afterwards.

So there's this thing that you can always go back to.

And my thing is, and why I said earlier on, my mission now is to be with someone who can tolerate me.

It's because I've realized that the best version of me

is the intolerable version of me.

Right.

So when I'm doing hobbies, I don't judge myself.

I don't criticize myself as much.

And I'm not seeking perfection.

And why wouldn't I be that version to someone else?

And they accept that.

And then they can also see that sometimes I'm a comedian who does comedy and stands on stage and over-analyzes.