Trisha Addicks

And my Rush counselor, I looked at her and I was like, what?

And she just shook her head and she was like, yeah, you didn't get a bid.

So I found an empty dorm room, cried my eyes out.

I was mortified.

And everybody else was screaming, running around.

It was a trauma.

And I know that that might seem like a joke or an exaggeration or whatever.

But it really was because it wasn't just about not being a sorority.

It was that feeling of rejection, that feeling of nobody wants you.

That stayed with me.

So this was like an eight-week period that I was zero sleep.

Like I wouldn't go to the bedroom and I would be on the phone all night.

I wasn't getting any sleep.

My rule of thumb is the number of pictures by yourself or with a boyfriend cannot exceed the number of pictures of you with your family and friends.

Because you want to look like a girl squirrel.

You want to look like someone who is open to friendships.

So if you just post a bunch of thirsty photos of yourself and or with your boyfriend, that's not the image you want to project.

We do an outfit plan for every single round with backups because it's really important to kind of center yourself before you start this and running around trying to figure out what you're wearing is going to distract from that.

And then same thing with hair and makeup, how long it's going to take you to get ready and when you're going to get ready.

And all of that is all part of it.