Trisha Addicks

If you practice specific questions and then you're not asked those specific questions or anything like that, then you're a deer in headlights.

So it's very much random, like, okay, what's your favorite thing to do when you're at the beach or whatever, anything, just so that they don't have a practiced answer.

they will put their desires on their daughter.

And there are a lot of rumors, there's a lot of talking amongst moms.

If someone's gone to a lunch with a bunch of women and their daughters are all going through rush, and one of them says, oh, my daughter's got invited back to every house that she wanted.

And if someone's daughter doesn't, then they're calling their daughter, what did you do that you didn't get asked back?

This is going to be terrible.

She's going to get dropped from everything.

Oh my God, what's going to happen?

So then the dad who had no idea about our prep or anything, he's like, what, what is happening?

My wife is spiraling.

How is my daughter going to get cut out of rush?

He called me at two in the morning and he's like, I don't understand.

You have to tell me what's going on.

So then I'm talking him out of his tree from two to four 30 in the morning.

The daughter was fine.

While the mother was losing her mind and spam texting her daughter and spam texting her mentor, she said, this process just isn't for her.

We're pulling her.

They pulled her out of school.

She's not in college.