Ty Tashiro

So if you kind of average all these numbers together, the divorce risk is about 50%. Now, Also part of that is the happy part. So some couples stay together, but they're really unhappy, chronically unhappy. And if you use the most modest estimate possible... You know, that's going to be about 8% of 8 to 10% of couples. So now we're up to 63%. So, you know, or 60%, I'm sorry.

So happily ever after, yes, is really hard to find. And I think it's harder than ever in the modern dating environment that we have.

So happily ever after, yes, is really hard to find. And I think it's harder than ever in the modern dating environment that we have.

So happily ever after, yes, is really hard to find. And I think it's harder than ever in the modern dating environment that we have.

Yeah, I think that's about right. It gets confusing with some of this evolutionary psychology theory because it could be true, for example, right? Let's say that we're not designed to be as monogamous as we are in modern society, but we have all these social constraints. We have financial commitments attached to marriage. We have kids attached to it.

Yeah, I think that's about right. It gets confusing with some of this evolutionary psychology theory because it could be true, for example, right? Let's say that we're not designed to be as monogamous as we are in modern society, but we have all these social constraints. We have financial commitments attached to marriage. We have kids attached to it.

Yeah, I think that's about right. It gets confusing with some of this evolutionary psychology theory because it could be true, for example, right? Let's say that we're not designed to be as monogamous as we are in modern society, but we have all these social constraints. We have financial commitments attached to marriage. We have kids attached to it.

who are dependent on their parents for longer than ever, maybe in human history. And, you know, any reasonable person then who has some degree of willpower is going to be able to fight some of these tendencies or biological pushes to kind of craft the life that they want. Now, I think the value of something like Sex at Dawn is to say, hey,

who are dependent on their parents for longer than ever, maybe in human history. And, you know, any reasonable person then who has some degree of willpower is going to be able to fight some of these tendencies or biological pushes to kind of craft the life that they want. Now, I think the value of something like Sex at Dawn is to say, hey,

who are dependent on their parents for longer than ever, maybe in human history. And, you know, any reasonable person then who has some degree of willpower is going to be able to fight some of these tendencies or biological pushes to kind of craft the life that they want. Now, I think the value of something like Sex at Dawn is to say, hey,

maybe I have some of these base urges and when I feel those pop up, I know what those are, but now let's develop a plan to deal with that so I don't burn down the rest of my life.

maybe I have some of these base urges and when I feel those pop up, I know what those are, but now let's develop a plan to deal with that so I don't burn down the rest of my life.

maybe I have some of these base urges and when I feel those pop up, I know what those are, but now let's develop a plan to deal with that so I don't burn down the rest of my life.

I think that's awesome. Yeah. I think just having these desires, having these reflexive, maybe a turn of the head or something like that, it's totally natural. The question is, is, you know, can you be honest with yourself about that, first of all, so you have the insight, the awareness, and then two, do you have a contingency plan so that you're not at the whims of your desire?

I think that's awesome. Yeah. I think just having these desires, having these reflexive, maybe a turn of the head or something like that, it's totally natural. The question is, is, you know, can you be honest with yourself about that, first of all, so you have the insight, the awareness, and then two, do you have a contingency plan so that you're not at the whims of your desire?

I think that's awesome. Yeah. I think just having these desires, having these reflexive, maybe a turn of the head or something like that, it's totally natural. The question is, is, you know, can you be honest with yourself about that, first of all, so you have the insight, the awareness, and then two, do you have a contingency plan so that you're not at the whims of your desire?

And so one of the really interesting things, for example, about couples who are really satisfied and who stay committed and are resistant to divorce is, is that they actively, we use this esoteric term, derogate. So they actively disparage attractive alternative options so other people they could hook up with.

And so one of the really interesting things, for example, about couples who are really satisfied and who stay committed and are resistant to divorce is, is that they actively, we use this esoteric term, derogate. So they actively disparage attractive alternative options so other people they could hook up with.

And so one of the really interesting things, for example, about couples who are really satisfied and who stay committed and are resistant to divorce is, is that they actively, we use this esoteric term, derogate. So they actively disparage attractive alternative options so other people they could hook up with.

And so if you have them look on a computer screen, for example, and a hot woman pops up on the computer screen, Men will reflexively avert their eyes for a second to try to not look at it. Now they'll look back eventually because they're guys, but they have this kind of protective mechanism to say, I can't just passively work with this.