Ty Tashiro

And almost never, right? And so I think it's this really great thing that people should just enjoy. But one of the things I like to do that is say, let's put some guardrails up ahead of time before you're in that state so you can enjoy it.

And you know that you're not going to make bad decisions about getting a dog together or something when you're in passionate love that now traps you in a situation that's not good in the long run.

And you know that you're not going to make bad decisions about getting a dog together or something when you're in passionate love that now traps you in a situation that's not good in the long run.

And you know that you're not going to make bad decisions about getting a dog together or something when you're in passionate love that now traps you in a situation that's not good in the long run.

That's right. Yeah, totally immersed. Totally absorbed in the experience. And all of our psychology and all of our physiology is pushing us in that direction. It's really remarkable, right, if you think about it. I say it's kind of like when you have to pee, there's nothing else you can think about except I have to pee. Oddly enough, being in passionate love can be a little bit of the same.

That's right. Yeah, totally immersed. Totally absorbed in the experience. And all of our psychology and all of our physiology is pushing us in that direction. It's really remarkable, right, if you think about it. I say it's kind of like when you have to pee, there's nothing else you can think about except I have to pee. Oddly enough, being in passionate love can be a little bit of the same.

That's right. Yeah, totally immersed. Totally absorbed in the experience. And all of our psychology and all of our physiology is pushing us in that direction. It's really remarkable, right, if you think about it. I say it's kind of like when you have to pee, there's nothing else you can think about except I have to pee. Oddly enough, being in passionate love can be a little bit of the same.

Blinders on and just totally focused on one thing. And if it's good and it's healthy, gosh, that's a beautiful thing, right? But if it's, let's say, with a narcissist or a psychopath and they're getting their claws into you, well, you're not in this position to make good, reasonable choices. You know, now it's not so great anymore. But on this point, though, on this passionate love point,

Blinders on and just totally focused on one thing. And if it's good and it's healthy, gosh, that's a beautiful thing, right? But if it's, let's say, with a narcissist or a psychopath and they're getting their claws into you, well, you're not in this position to make good, reasonable choices. You know, now it's not so great anymore. But on this point, though, on this passionate love point,

Blinders on and just totally focused on one thing. And if it's good and it's healthy, gosh, that's a beautiful thing, right? But if it's, let's say, with a narcissist or a psychopath and they're getting their claws into you, well, you're not in this position to make good, reasonable choices. You know, now it's not so great anymore. But on this point, though, on this passionate love point,

If you do have these guardrails up ahead of time for yourself and you find someone and you're just, gosh, you're really into it and you're just absorbed in that experience, just enjoy it. It's great. It doesn't last for forever. And sometimes people ask, so, hey, Ty, why can't I stay? in that heart-pounding, butterfly-in-the-stomach, passionate love feeling for forever.

If you do have these guardrails up ahead of time for yourself and you find someone and you're just, gosh, you're really into it and you're just absorbed in that experience, just enjoy it. It's great. It doesn't last for forever. And sometimes people ask, so, hey, Ty, why can't I stay? in that heart-pounding, butterfly-in-the-stomach, passionate love feeling for forever.

If you do have these guardrails up ahead of time for yourself and you find someone and you're just, gosh, you're really into it and you're just absorbed in that experience, just enjoy it. It's great. It doesn't last for forever. And sometimes people ask, so, hey, Ty, why can't I stay? in that heart-pounding, butterfly-in-the-stomach, passionate love feeling for forever.

And I tell them, because you would die. That pounding heart is high blood pressure. Butterflies would burn a hole in your stomach, burn an ulcer in there from all the cortisol and everything else they're leaving off. So if you're just in passionate love for a year or two, don't worry about it. But if you stay that way, it's too high

And I tell them, because you would die. That pounding heart is high blood pressure. Butterflies would burn a hole in your stomach, burn an ulcer in there from all the cortisol and everything else they're leaving off. So if you're just in passionate love for a year or two, don't worry about it. But if you stay that way, it's too high

And I tell them, because you would die. That pounding heart is high blood pressure. Butterflies would burn a hole in your stomach, burn an ulcer in there from all the cortisol and everything else they're leaving off. So if you're just in passionate love for a year or two, don't worry about it. But if you stay that way, it's too high

Yeah. So passionate love is pretty heavily lust driven. So, you know, you're very sexually interested in a person. You're just starting to get things kicked off sexually or physically with that person. So, yeah, it's really kind of heavy on the lust side of the equation.

Yeah. So passionate love is pretty heavily lust driven. So, you know, you're very sexually interested in a person. You're just starting to get things kicked off sexually or physically with that person. So, yeah, it's really kind of heavy on the lust side of the equation.

Yeah. So passionate love is pretty heavily lust driven. So, you know, you're very sexually interested in a person. You're just starting to get things kicked off sexually or physically with that person. So, yeah, it's really kind of heavy on the lust side of the equation.

Now, when you get to know the person better and you get into a more stable phase of the relationship, now you start to see this companionate love emerge, which is more of just like the, we enjoy hanging out with each other. Like, we're really good friends. I actually just enjoy who this person is beyond the physical aspects. And now you have the two components in place.