Ty Tashiro

let's say, talk about a tough topic or bring up something uncomfortable, we tend to catastrophize that and think it's going to be much worse than it's really going to be. And so both of these errors in either direction can cause problems with us accurately envisioning the future.

let's say, talk about a tough topic or bring up something uncomfortable, we tend to catastrophize that and think it's going to be much worse than it's really going to be. And so both of these errors in either direction can cause problems with us accurately envisioning the future.

let's say, talk about a tough topic or bring up something uncomfortable, we tend to catastrophize that and think it's going to be much worse than it's really going to be. And so both of these errors in either direction can cause problems with us accurately envisioning the future.

Well, now, yeah. Now that's that state, that phase, however long it lasts. Now that's a total neurological disaster. Yeah. You know, I'm not a neuroscience expert, but I know enough to make sense of these things. I remember reading, when I first read those studies about these people in passionate love and they're thinking about their partner.

Well, now, yeah. Now that's that state, that phase, however long it lasts. Now that's a total neurological disaster. Yeah. You know, I'm not a neuroscience expert, but I know enough to make sense of these things. I remember reading, when I first read those studies about these people in passionate love and they're thinking about their partner.

Well, now, yeah. Now that's that state, that phase, however long it lasts. Now that's a total neurological disaster. Yeah. You know, I'm not a neuroscience expert, but I know enough to make sense of these things. I remember reading, when I first read those studies about these people in passionate love and they're thinking about their partner.

I mean, if you look at the things that are activated, not activated, the kind of takeaway is you're not making cost-benefit analyses. And the reason is because you're having a really hard time seeing cost at all. Those areas are actually deactivated. So it's harder to see cost. It's all benefit-based. And of course, when we've been in that phase, when we're in passionate love,

I mean, if you look at the things that are activated, not activated, the kind of takeaway is you're not making cost-benefit analyses. And the reason is because you're having a really hard time seeing cost at all. Those areas are actually deactivated. So it's harder to see cost. It's all benefit-based. And of course, when we've been in that phase, when we're in passionate love,

I mean, if you look at the things that are activated, not activated, the kind of takeaway is you're not making cost-benefit analyses. And the reason is because you're having a really hard time seeing cost at all. Those areas are actually deactivated. So it's harder to see cost. It's all benefit-based. And of course, when we've been in that phase, when we're in passionate love,

Yeah, we're totally irrational. Anything the partner does seems cute or quirky. Of course, if you fast forward two or three years, some of those cute, quirky things become super annoying.

Yeah, we're totally irrational. Anything the partner does seems cute or quirky. Of course, if you fast forward two or three years, some of those cute, quirky things become super annoying.

Yeah, we're totally irrational. Anything the partner does seems cute or quirky. Of course, if you fast forward two or three years, some of those cute, quirky things become super annoying.

That's right. That's right. So, you know, sometimes I can get quiet. I'm pretty introverted. And so maybe a woman early in a relationship might think it's mysterious or something like that. It becomes much less mysterious when I'm not having an active conversation when we're supposed to be really engaged with something. So yeah, you know, it can happen to all of us, but, uh,

That's right. That's right. So, you know, sometimes I can get quiet. I'm pretty introverted. And so maybe a woman early in a relationship might think it's mysterious or something like that. It becomes much less mysterious when I'm not having an active conversation when we're supposed to be really engaged with something. So yeah, you know, it can happen to all of us, but, uh,

That's right. That's right. So, you know, sometimes I can get quiet. I'm pretty introverted. And so maybe a woman early in a relationship might think it's mysterious or something like that. It becomes much less mysterious when I'm not having an active conversation when we're supposed to be really engaged with something. So yeah, you know, it can happen to all of us, but, uh,

there's all kinds of mistakes we make and passionate love is that being said, Chris, I think, you know, sometimes people are like, well, so, so maybe I should try to hold it together a little bit more when I'm, I'm like, no way. What feels as good as passionate love? When do you ever feel that way emotionally, physically? When are you just that euphoric about anything in life?

there's all kinds of mistakes we make and passionate love is that being said, Chris, I think, you know, sometimes people are like, well, so, so maybe I should try to hold it together a little bit more when I'm, I'm like, no way. What feels as good as passionate love? When do you ever feel that way emotionally, physically? When are you just that euphoric about anything in life?

there's all kinds of mistakes we make and passionate love is that being said, Chris, I think, you know, sometimes people are like, well, so, so maybe I should try to hold it together a little bit more when I'm, I'm like, no way. What feels as good as passionate love? When do you ever feel that way emotionally, physically? When are you just that euphoric about anything in life?

And almost never, right? And so I think it's this really great thing that people should just enjoy. But one of the things I like to do that is say, let's put some guardrails up ahead of time before you're in that state so you can enjoy it.

And almost never, right? And so I think it's this really great thing that people should just enjoy. But one of the things I like to do that is say, let's put some guardrails up ahead of time before you're in that state so you can enjoy it.