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Ty Tashiro

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Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

You can also put in that category for, you know, women choosing men, a certain degree of social dominance or leadership capability can be very hot as well. You know, they like the power or they like the, you know, there's a reason why lead singers and quarterbacks tend to do pretty well, kind of showing that leadership, you At the start, at least, women times often can find that lust-worthy.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

You can also put in that category for, you know, women choosing men, a certain degree of social dominance or leadership capability can be very hot as well. You know, they like the power or they like the, you know, there's a reason why lead singers and quarterbacks tend to do pretty well, kind of showing that leadership, you At the start, at least, women times often can find that lust-worthy.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

You can also put in that category for, you know, women choosing men, a certain degree of social dominance or leadership capability can be very hot as well. You know, they like the power or they like the, you know, there's a reason why lead singers and quarterbacks tend to do pretty well, kind of showing that leadership, you At the start, at least, women times often can find that lust-worthy.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

Now, companionate love is going to sound totally boring by comparison, but these are things like stability. Is the person a kind person? Do they have good values? And those sorts of things. And of course, those things are important for a long-term relationship and important for liking the person and trusting a person, but they're a lot less flashy than the components for lust.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

Now, companionate love is going to sound totally boring by comparison, but these are things like stability. Is the person a kind person? Do they have good values? And those sorts of things. And of course, those things are important for a long-term relationship and important for liking the person and trusting a person, but they're a lot less flashy than the components for lust.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

Now, companionate love is going to sound totally boring by comparison, but these are things like stability. Is the person a kind person? Do they have good values? And those sorts of things. And of course, those things are important for a long-term relationship and important for liking the person and trusting a person, but they're a lot less flashy than the components for lust.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

I wish I had a good answer for you that was, hey, we're totally positive how to make this happen. But one thing I'll say that might be helpful here is that there's a tremendous amount of variability with how long it takes people to transition out of passionate love. Actually, much more than I would have expected. So some people transition out of passionate love after just a couple months.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

I wish I had a good answer for you that was, hey, we're totally positive how to make this happen. But one thing I'll say that might be helpful here is that there's a tremendous amount of variability with how long it takes people to transition out of passionate love. Actually, much more than I would have expected. So some people transition out of passionate love after just a couple months.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

I wish I had a good answer for you that was, hey, we're totally positive how to make this happen. But one thing I'll say that might be helpful here is that there's a tremendous amount of variability with how long it takes people to transition out of passionate love. Actually, much more than I would have expected. So some people transition out of passionate love after just a couple months.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

Other people will keep it going for a year or two. There's some just outliers, though, who will keep it going for years on end. Once in a while, anecdotally, I'll meet some of these couples who've been married for a decade, two decades, and they're all over each other. I'm like, you know, get a room kind of situation. And I'm like, wow, that's really, that's really amazing. That's really great.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

Other people will keep it going for a year or two. There's some just outliers, though, who will keep it going for years on end. Once in a while, anecdotally, I'll meet some of these couples who've been married for a decade, two decades, and they're all over each other. I'm like, you know, get a room kind of situation. And I'm like, wow, that's really, that's really amazing. That's really great.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

Other people will keep it going for a year or two. There's some just outliers, though, who will keep it going for years on end. Once in a while, anecdotally, I'll meet some of these couples who've been married for a decade, two decades, and they're all over each other. I'm like, you know, get a room kind of situation. And I'm like, wow, that's really, that's really amazing. That's really great.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

And you know, who knows what, why that's the case. So I think someplace where psychology hasn't gotten yet with the research on passionate love is exactly to your question. So why is it the case that some people try to transition out more quickly and Why do some people sustain it for longer?

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

And you know, who knows what, why that's the case. So I think someplace where psychology hasn't gotten yet with the research on passionate love is exactly to your question. So why is it the case that some people try to transition out more quickly and Why do some people sustain it for longer?

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

And you know, who knows what, why that's the case. So I think someplace where psychology hasn't gotten yet with the research on passionate love is exactly to your question. So why is it the case that some people try to transition out more quickly and Why do some people sustain it for longer?

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

One thing I will say that seems to be one of the most promising variables is what we would call expansion of the self. So, you know, you have your own traits and characteristics that are unique to you. And even though your partner might have some similarities with you, they're, of course, going to have their unique traits.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

One thing I will say that seems to be one of the most promising variables is what we would call expansion of the self. So, you know, you have your own traits and characteristics that are unique to you. And even though your partner might have some similarities with you, they're, of course, going to have their unique traits.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

One thing I will say that seems to be one of the most promising variables is what we would call expansion of the self. So, you know, you have your own traits and characteristics that are unique to you. And even though your partner might have some similarities with you, they're, of course, going to have their unique traits.

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

personality traits and you know interests and all kinds of things life experiences one of the things that happens in couples that maintain a higher degree of passionate love is they're super curious about the things that are different in their partner and they want to learn about it and they want to try to expand their own self so their own interests and personality and

Modern Wisdom
#926 - Ty Tashiro - How To Find The Love Of Your Life

personality traits and you know interests and all kinds of things life experiences one of the things that happens in couples that maintain a higher degree of passionate love is they're super curious about the things that are different in their partner and they want to learn about it and they want to try to expand their own self so their own interests and personality and